Anonymous wrote:I can only speak for myself, as a man much older than your H. I can totally separate sex from whatever stress I may be feeling, or how much of a B she may be at anytime. Unless she is harping at me during, or immediately before sex, it isn't a factor. But that's not him so I don't know. Either way, ED at any age, but especially his age needs to be checked out for other causes. All by itself, it's very easy to fix with vitamin V.

I guess it depends. For some men, it may be connected, while others can separate their emotions/stress from the physical need.

My DH can do this. Whether he's stressed, has a cold, or I'm b1tchy, he is usually in the mood for some.

Do you smell bad? Have a yeast infection? You need to wash your crotch.

Funky smell will kill a boner quicker than a cold shower.

I can only speak for myself, as a man much older than your H. I can totally separate sex from whatever stress I may be feeling, or how much of a B she may be at anytime. Unless she is harping at me during, or immediately before sex, it isn't a factor. But that's not him so I don't know. Either way, ED at any age, but especially his age needs to be checked out for other causes. All by itself, it's very easy to fix with vitamin V.

Look, OP, regardless of sex, you shouldn't be a bitch to your spouse when you're stressed out. Grow up and learn how to handle your emotions in a non destructive way. It shouldn't take an erection issue to deal with it, that should just be plain common courtesy.

Secondly, stop being abitch, start being loving and show your DH you desire him and admire him. See how that goes.

If all that is good, and there's still an issue, he needs to talk to his doctor.

Guy here. Yes, it definitely turns me off when shes mean to me or our son. It takes me a while each time to find her attractive again.

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Anonymous wrote:It is physically impossible for your attitude to cause a biological dysfunction in an other person..

This could not be more wrong. Sex is very mental and emotional, the brain is a very physical organ. How you feel about someone absolutely affects whether you get turned on for them

Yup. Don’t be a b*tch to him all day and expect him to be hard and ardent that night.

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Anonymous wrote:I really do not think you being a B (please don’t call yourself that) has anything to do with his ED. I totally second what PP said.

It absolutely can if it impacts how her DH feels about her. Would you be enthused about having sex with your husband if he wasn't treating you very nice?

Why do I get a sense that you’re a woman?

Anonymous wrote:It is physically impossible for your attitude to cause a biological dysfunction in an other person..

This could not be more wrong. Sex is very mental and emotional, the brain is a very physical organ. How you feel about someone absolutely affects whether you get turned on for them

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Anonymous wrote:If my wife acted like a B I’d take my erection elsewhere.

Right, I get that. My question is: Can this be fixed? We used to have a great sex life.

Yes it absolutely can. Be loving, tender and patient. Apologize. Put absolutely no pressure on him in bed.

Anonymous wrote:If my wife acted like a B I’d take my erection elsewhere.

Right, I get that. My question is: Can this be fixed? We used to have a great sex life.

Stress can absolutely cause issues with getting and maintaining an erection. If you guys have been going through a lot of stress lately and your marriage is a bit rocky, it's completely possible that stress is impacting him.

If my wife acted like a B I’d take my erection elsewhere.