Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you all for all the info and great advice!
One thing I’m trying to understand is if kids will see violent images on those lower floors, for example if we don’t go in the Emmett Till Room. Some of you mentioned red borders - are these small pictures you quickly walked past so your kids wouldn’t see them, or are they kind of tucked away? Or did your kids glimpse them anyway?
I don’t mean any disrespect or to suggest they’re shouldn’t be violent images. Just trying to figure out when my kids would be ready and unfortunately I don’t have the opportunity to go without them. They have learned some things and I would like them to understand more deeply but also don’t want to traumatize or confuse them. .
I mean, yes. Slavery was violent. Human trade and bondage was violent. If you want to avoid that, the museum is not for you and your kid. Or you need to stick to the happy upper floors.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you all for all the info and great advice!
One thing I’m trying to understand is if kids will see violent images on those lower floors, for example if we don’t go in the Emmett Till Room. Some of you mentioned red borders - are these small pictures you quickly walked past so your kids wouldn’t see them, or are they kind of tucked away? Or did your kids glimpse them anyway?
I don’t mean any disrespect or to suggest they’re shouldn’t be violent images. Just trying to figure out when my kids would be ready and unfortunately I don’t have the opportunity to go without them. They have learned some things and I would like them to understand more deeply but also don’t want to traumatize or confuse them. .
I recall that there was one room with photos of lynchings--basically what Billie Holiday sang about in "Strange Fruit." I don't remember any others, but I may have missed some. I just didn't take my kid in that room.
Anonymous wrote:Thank you all for all the info and great advice!
One thing I’m trying to understand is if kids will see violent images on those lower floors, for example if we don’t go in the Emmett Till Room. Some of you mentioned red borders - are these small pictures you quickly walked past so your kids wouldn’t see them, or are they kind of tucked away? Or did your kids glimpse them anyway?
I don’t mean any disrespect or to suggest they’re shouldn’t be violent images. Just trying to figure out when my kids would be ready and unfortunately I don’t have the opportunity to go without them. They have learned some things and I would like them to understand more deeply but also don’t want to traumatize or confuse them. .
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you still need to reserve tickets/passes in advance? Is it hard to get tickets?
yes you do, its 3 months in advance.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:AA kids, as soon as you want to take them
White kids- middle school at the earliest. Have never seen white kids younger than that behaving or showing any interest or treating the museum with respect.
Harsh but fair imo (although I know a few-- VERY few-- for whom this is or would not be true). But agree-- don't take your kids if they aren't willing to be pretty reverent and you don't discuss race or black history with them otherwise.
Anonymous wrote:Thank you all for all the info and great advice!
One thing I’m trying to understand is if kids will see violent images on those lower floors, for example if we don’t go in the Emmett Till Room. Some of you mentioned red borders - are these small pictures you quickly walked past so your kids wouldn’t see them, or are they kind of tucked away? Or did your kids glimpse them anyway?
I don’t mean any disrespect or to suggest they’re shouldn’t be violent images. Just trying to figure out when my kids would be ready and unfortunately I don’t have the opportunity to go without them. They have learned some things and I would like them to understand more deeply but also don’t want to traumatize or confuse them. .
Anonymous wrote:Thank you all for all the info and great advice!
One thing I’m trying to understand is if kids will see violent images on those lower floors, for example if we don’t go in the Emmett Till Room. Some of you mentioned red borders - are these small pictures you quickly walked past so your kids wouldn’t see them, or are they kind of tucked away? Or did your kids glimpse them anyway?
I don’t mean any disrespect or to suggest they’re shouldn’t be violent images. Just trying to figure out when my kids would be ready and unfortunately I don’t have the opportunity to go without them. They have learned some things and I would like them to understand more deeply but also don’t want to traumatize or confuse them. .
Anonymous wrote:Do you still need to reserve tickets/passes in advance? Is it hard to get tickets?
Anonymous wrote:I took my white son at 8. He behaved, was interested (he loves museums and is generally very curious, and goes to an all black school), and I took him through the Emmet Till memorial exhibit room.
It was a shorter day with him than I had spent on my precious adult only visit. I’d recommend seeing the harsher parts (like Emmet Till, not the slavery parts) before taking a kid so that you can be focused on their reaction and be prepared in advance for how you might feel.