Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have him show you where it hurts (lower abdomen, just below ribs, behind ribs), then call the ped.
When my son was about 4 with a tummy ache I finally thought to do that. Turns out it was a tummy ache in his throat........
Once he was treated for strep the “tummy” ache went away
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't understand all the quasi-medical questions on DCUM. Do your doctor's offices not have nurse's lines? This is exactly what the nurse's line is for. Call the nurse's line and see what they tell you to do.
This is so dumb. When you're a woman, and you show up with a kid (literally, the two least taken seriously demographics by doctors) with vague descriptions of a tummy ache, the doctor is clearly going to say 'keep an eye on it', 'try keeping track of food and activities and see if you notice a pattern', 'it's really common for kids to complain of tummy aches - it's usually nothing'. Basically everything that posters are saying on here. What would a doctor possibly say that's different?
Point is: when it's non-testable issues, crowd sourcing thoughts from parents is going to be as good or better than going to a doctor.
Anonymous wrote:Have him show you where it hurts (lower abdomen, just below ribs, behind ribs), then call the ped.
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand all the quasi-medical questions on DCUM. Do your doctor's offices not have nurse's lines? This is exactly what the nurse's line is for. Call the nurse's line and see what they tell you to do.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe not an issue if he's otherwise healthly but at that age a stomachache complaint with my kids often turned out the be strep
For 10 straight days tho?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This happened with my DS in kindergarten. We finally figured out it was a nervous belly. He never had specific complaints or worries about school, etc. but it just manifested in complaints of his tummy hurting. Some extra TLC, unstructured playdates with school friends, and time made the complaints go away.
Yes. My DD is 5 too. She will off and on complain about her stomach, but then will eat lunch fine, play just fine etc. She used to say it in the morning. I normally ask her if she needs to poop, and then offer some water, and a "let's see if that helps" kind of thing. I do suspect some of it is just general nerves about school, the week, SOMETHING and I don't think she can explain it. I have stared just asking "is there something about school making you feel nervous?" and occasionally I get a dumping of how some game isn't going her way or the like.
+100 on the unstructured time. My DD was just telling me how having someone else tell you what to do all the time was just SO HARD. It really is. They need time to just BE.
THIS. Folks, kindergarten is hard for them. Even if they can't really articulate it and even if they seem happy to go and generally are doing well, it's just a huge adjustment. When you think about it, they control so little of what they're doing and their day.
Anonymous wrote:Maybe not an issue if he's otherwise healthly but at that age a stomachache complaint with my kids often turned out the be strep