Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 16:46     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Yes, I'd be fine without it and wish I cared more. Love him. 35, married 10 years.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 16:46     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:Would you want to have sex with someone else?


Yes.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 16:46     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:Would you want to have sex with someone else?


Yes Yes Yes
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 16:44     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
No! I initiated today and it was awesome. Usually DH initiates, so he loved the change of pace.

I'd go insane without sex.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 16:39     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
NO. I like being intimate with my husband, would not want to give that part of our relationship up.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 16:21     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
I think the “never” part of subject question is really skewing the results. Rephrase this as “twice per year” and 90% of women would happily agree. My wife definitely! Yet she still plays along twice per week for my sake.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:55     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
no, I like the feeling of connection and intimacy, as well as the physical release. It feels good.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:51     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
No I want it more often than DH
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:39     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow, all this duty sex is making me sad. You could never convince me to get married again. I love having a GF with nearly the same sex drive as me. If there came a time when she didn't want sex, she wouldn't do it anyway "for the sake of our marriage," or to not break my heart. She just wouldn't do it and I'd move on to the next. If there is one thing I've learned from this board, if you don't want to get stuck in sexless marriage, don't get married. You have all scared me straight and I thank you for that.


Same here brother!


If you found a girl who enjoys frequent intimacy, you should lock that down! I’m a DW, married 10 years and would like 3-4x a week (work full time and have a baby and toddler at home). I have higher drive than DH, who is happy at 1x week. So, we keep it at 1x week. I also have some girlfriends who are similarly higher drive than their DH - we exist!
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:37     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Absolutely I’d go without! I love my husband and our marriage dearly, but sex is not something I enjoy/need/want. I’m 33/married 11 years.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:36     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.


Gross


gross that she's healthy enough to enjoy sex at 64? repressed much?
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:35     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:Yep. I do it once a week to keep him happy, but I could 100% live without it.


without it or without it with him?
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:35     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.


Gross
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:31     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
I have a lot drive dh - if never having sex with him again meant I could have sex with others, sure! But I’m not giving up the only source of sex I have!
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 15:22     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.