Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If there was a magic pill for female libido, half the posts in the Relationship forum would tell women to take it.

And half the woman would have no interest in taking it at least with their husbands.

Viagara for women is a different man. Men are all good with the same woman as long as she is into him

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Other than that, I agree with you. All these testosterone supplements and ED drugs are solutions in search of a problem. If one's body doesn't want to do this stuff naturally in one's 60s and 70s, that's not unnatural or a "condition" to be fixed.

Amen brother (or sister)!

But if one’s body and mind wants to do this stuff when in their 60’s and 70’s but can’t do it naturally why not turn to a solution? If my husband wants to have sex with me when he is 65 but has ED I’d be happy for him to get viagra. I’d buy it for him.

You missed the point. It’s a 2 way street. If a couple is happy with their frequency, no matter what the frequency is, that’s all that matters.
Don’t go looking for a problem where there isn’t one.

Anonymous wrote:If there was a magic pill for female libido, half the posts in the Relationship forum would tell women to take it.

And half the woman would have no interest in taking it at least with their husbands.

If there was a magic pill for female libido, half the posts in the Relationship forum would tell women to take it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Other than that, I agree with you. All these testosterone supplements and ED drugs are solutions in search of a problem. If one's body doesn't want to do this stuff naturally in one's 60s and 70s, that's not unnatural or a "condition" to be fixed.

Amen brother (or sister)!

But if one’s body and mind wants to do this stuff when in their 60’s and 70’s but can’t do it naturally why not turn to a solution? If my husband wants to have sex with me when he is 65 but has ED I’d be happy for him to get viagra. I’d buy it for him.

I agree. Viagra FTW!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Other than that, I agree with you. All these testosterone supplements and ED drugs are solutions in search of a problem. If one's body doesn't want to do this stuff naturally in one's 60s and 70s, that's not unnatural or a "condition" to be fixed.

Amen brother (or sister)!

But if one’s body and mind wants to do this stuff when in their 60’s and 70’s but can’t do it naturally why not turn to a solution? If my husband wants to have sex with me when he is 65 but has ED I’d be happy for him to get viagra. I’d buy it for him.

I’m 68 and my husband is 69 and we have sex at least once a week. We have been married 40 years and I’m happy that we still enjoy it after all of this time. When we were younger we were not high libido, or at least I wasn’t, so even pre-children it was only 2-3 times a week. It is sad that many of my friends who are around my age or younger hint about the absence of a sex life and are quite happy with it. I don’t know how their husbands feel about that or what they might do because of it. I get a lot of enjoyment knowing that at my age I can still arouse my husband and often tire him out. Not bad for a grandmother!

Anonymous wrote:Other than that, I agree with you. All these testosterone supplements and ED drugs are solutions in search of a problem. If one's body doesn't want to do this stuff naturally in one's 60s and 70s, that's not unnatural or a "condition" to be fixed.

Amen brother (or sister)!

DH 76, me time 67, every other day.

Dream wife.

DH 72, me 58. Three times a week, would be more if I wanted it. He’s on no meds but just loves me to death and can’t get enough time together.

Make an appmt with your primary care physician. Have your "T" checked through bloodwork. Physician can prescribe a "T" patch.

He asked anonymous strangers for their opinion. Now you want to blast a guy his age who told him what he thinks?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:I feel bad for her. I'm 64 with a woman 15 years younger and I'm the more sexually aggressive one. You should not be slowing down that much at your age.

Who are you to say what should happen to a person at any age? Who made you the arbiter of all in life?

OP, you should have a talk with your wife and find a solution that woks for both of you. As someone else suggested, it could be about intimacy as opposed to sex and maybe she just wants to feel more attractive so could flirting/compliments work as well?

Read his posting history. That is who he is.

I don't know who you are either. What is your view of the situation?

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:I feel bad for her. I'm 64 with a woman 15 years younger and I'm the more sexually aggressive one. You should not be slowing down that much at your age.

Who are you to say what should happen to a person at any age? Who made you the arbiter of all in life?

OP, you should have a talk with your wife and find a solution that woks for both of you. As someone else suggested, it could be about intimacy as opposed to sex and maybe she just wants to feel more attractive so could flirting/compliments work as well?

Read his posting history. That is who he is.