Anonymous wrote:Those of you who rated your dh as having a nice body (8-10 for instance), what made you rate them so high? Are they fit? Muscles? Large downstairs? What is it?

Not fat and proportional.

Those of you who rated your dh as having a nice body (8-10 for instance), what made you rate them so high? Are they fit? Muscles? Large downstairs? What is it?

1. Kindness 2 (used to be higher before career and earnings became the focus)
2. Humor 2 (used to be higher before career and earnings became the focus)
3. Generosity 2 (used to be higher before career and earnings became the focus)
4. Parenting 2
5. Attractiveness--face 7
6. Attractiveness--body 5 (used to be closer to 10, 15 years ago)
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 9

are you content being married to this person? -- No. Planning to divorce.

Anonymous wrote:On scale of 1-10, 1 being low and 10 being high, rate your spouse's:

1. Kindness
2. Humor
3. Generosity
4. Parenting
5. Attractiveness--face
6. Attractiveness--body
7. Career success
8. Earnings

And then answer: are you content being married to this person?

1. 9
2. 10
3. 9
4. 9
5. 10
6. 10
7. 9
8. 9


Yes. Content and happy.

1. Kindness 8
2. Humor 10
3. Generosity 10
4. Parenting 8
5. Attractiveness--face 9
6. Attractiveness--body 7 - a little chubby
7. Career success 10+
8. Earnings 10+

Yes, someone who is incredibly successful can also be a really good man.

Anonymous wrote:1. Kindness 10
2. Humor 8 (he'd get a 10 but some jokes are corny dad jokes)
3. Generosity 10
4. Parenting 15
5. Attractiveness--face 10
6. Attractiveness--body 10
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 10

Totally happy.

Wonder how most others would rate the attractivness of this spouse.

Anonymous wrote:
1. Kindness 10
2. Humor 9
3. Generosity 8
4. Parenting 9
5. Attractiveness--face 9
6. Attractiveness--body 6
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 4

And then answer: are you content being married to this person?

Yes!

1. Kindness - 5
2. Humor - 8
3. Generosity - 7 (very generous with money but not time)
4. Parenting - 5
5. Attractiveness--face - 8
6. Attractiveness--body- 8
7. Career success -7
8. Earnings 8

Content 70% of the time. I wish he did more with the kids without me twisting his arm, and I wish he would get his anxiety under control.

1. Kindness 8
2. Humor 6
3. Generosity 4
4. Parenting 8
5. Attractiveness--face 8
6. Attractiveness--body 7
7. Career success 9
8. Earnings 7

Very content. Here’s how he would rate me:


1. Kindness 5
2. Humor 8
3. Generosity 8
4. Parenting 9
5. Attractiveness--face 8
6. Attractiveness--body 7
7. Career success 7
8. Earnings 8

If I ramped up the sex more, my kindness score would go
up to a 9. We’re both very content with room for improvement on the bj front.

Anonymous wrote:On scale of 1-10, 1 being low and 10 being high, rate your spouse's:

1. Kindness - 9
2. Humor - 7
3. Generosity - 9
4. Parenting - 8
5. Attractiveness--face - 7
6. Attractiveness--body- 4
7. Career success -7
8. Earnings 6

And then answer: are you content being married to this person?

Hm. I was. I'm no longer. But it isn't any of the above that caused the discontent.

Anonymous wrote:1. Kindness 10
2. Humor 8 (he'd get a 10 but some jokes are corny dad jokes)
3. Generosity 10
4. Parenting 15
5. Attractiveness--face 10
6. Attractiveness--body 10
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 10

Totally happy.

How did you find this unicorn??

1. Kindness - 9
2. Humor - 9
3. Generosity - 9
4. Parenting - 9
5. Attractiveness--face - 8
6. Attractiveness--body - 7
7. Career success - 7
8. Earnings - 7

Very happy.

0 on everything except nice looks and a minimal effort at parenting.

He didn't use to be like this. His mental disorder has become really handicapping but he still denies he has a problem and refuses treatment. No, obviously, the kids and I are not happy with him, but we're not getting divorced.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Kindness 4
2. Humor 4
3. Generosity 3
4. Parenting 8
5. Attractiveness--face 8
6. Attractiveness--body 8
7. Career success 10
8. Earnings 10

Content most of the time

Well, we all see what you value in a spouse...

Haha beat me to it

Male version of this...

Rate your wife on frequency and quality of
1. Sex
2. BJs
3. Sammiches