Anonymous wrote:This is a weird question I realize. But when it comes to getting kids music lessons, it seems like most of my social circle has opted for violin, cello, or piano.
Is there a reason for that? My son is learning the sax. Is this considered less classy?
I feel that it is subtly looked down upon as not good enough by the other moms.
Anonymous wrote:Your child should play what he or she likes.
In any event, piano and string instrument players are a dime a dozen so maybe the sax will make him stand out more.
I mean, playing the violin (her choice) is going to do nothing for my DD's college apps. She's Asian. She's like a walking cliche. But it was her choice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is a weird question I realize. But when it comes to getting kids music lessons, it seems like most of my social circle has opted for violin, cello, or piano.
Is there a reason for that? My son is learning the sax. Is this considered less classy?
I feel that it is subtly looked down upon as not good enough by the other moms.
How old is your child? Some instruments are harder to start on at younger ages and others are easier. Some kids have lung capacity, finger, arm length etc that lend themselves to a particular instrument. There are many factors.
I don't know why you would feel that someone is looking down on your kid, but if your child is young then sax is unusual. If your child is older then I am not sure why you care.
From a college admissions perspective, the more rare the instrument the more chance of it helping with college admissions. But even then, the level of play has to be basically conservatory level for it to have an impact on admissions and I'm not sure it id does anyway. Playing an instrument that is needed at a school is nowhere near the hook that being a recruited athlete is.
So, in short, don't worry about. My ds plays piano and double bass. The double bass is incredibly difficult to move around. Unless he starts practicing more, the chances of him playing in college are low!
It must be easier than moving a piano! lol
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I can think of a few things they might be thinking, none of them actually true for anyone who actually knows anything at all about music.
- Orchestra is more intellectual than band, since orchestras play real classical music and band is just marching around in costumes and playing at football games.
- String instruments and piano have huge competition circuits starting at age 3 so therefore must be higher status because why else would they have competitions to prove who is the best
- Strings and piano are more difficult than any other instruments hence need to be started earlier to actually be good, so therefore they must be better.
- Good string and piano teachers teach at conservatories, and saxophone teachers only teach at Music & Arts, therefore piano and string instruments are more serious pursuits because it costs more for lessons.
- Having a teacher from the NSO is so much classier than having one from one of the military bands
Well. Other than the fact that marching bands must actually move in a coordinated manner, plus play the music they have to perform. I’ve been in both orchestral settings and “band” settings (two different instruments). I’ll just say - don’t discount the skill of the “band” kinds who aren’t in the same setting, day after day, on the same two instruments.
Check out the Ohio State marching band on Youtube and also check out Florida A&M marching band on youtube.
Anonymous wrote:I can think of a few things they might be thinking, none of them actually true for anyone who actually knows anything at all about music.
- Orchestra is more intellectual than band, since orchestras play real classical music and band is just marching around in costumes and playing at football games.
- String instruments and piano have huge competition circuits starting at age 3 so therefore must be higher status because why else would they have competitions to prove who is the best
- Strings and piano are more difficult than any other instruments hence need to be started earlier to actually be good, so therefore they must be better.
- Good string and piano teachers teach at conservatories, and saxophone teachers only teach at Music & Arts, therefore piano and string instruments are more serious pursuits because it costs more for lessons.
- Having a teacher from the NSO is so much classier than having one from one of the military bands