Why are you watching your friend's 8 year old? Why are these kids playing? Makes no sense.

OP, she is not your friend. Fade. You have made this harder by involving your DH. Stop discussing with others.

Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, the girl is 8 and yours is 5? That’s a huge age difference to have them play together. Sounds like it was one incident and you are being overly dramatic about it. Yes, let it go. You even said you didn’t like the girl even before she was mean. Look within yourself to wonder why you are so negative and childish towards an 8 year old

dp you need to learn how to read before you accuse anyone of being dramatic. The girl ( hers is four) and the other girl is 8.

Op I don't see how this is going to end well. If you say something the mom is not going to see her dd in a negative light. If you keep inviting them you have to keep your dd near you or have one of your boys watch out.

Sorry!

Plenty of kids just suck. This 8 year might just suck. Hopefully she’ll outgrow it. In the meantime, teach your child language that puts the jerk in her place, and to avoid.

Are you four YO and the 8 YO expected to play together because they are both girls? That’s not enough apparently.