Anonymous
Post 11/23/2019 08:58     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:While I'm not really in a position to compare PVI to GNZ (and I live in ARL), I will note that my son graduated from GNZ two years ago, and is now at UVA. It is a special place - candidly, I never really "got" Catholic education, let alone single sex education, until he went there. So fair warning, I'm a fanboy if you will, but I come by it honestly.

1. Academics were very solid. Wide range of elective courses. Solid writing instruction. He had to work pretty hard. And he came out thinking for himself, and working with others well.
2. What others say about lacrosse and other major stick-and-ball sports is true. You have to be good to play varsity. Sometimes really good. That said, the no-cut sports (eg, XC, hockey, rugby) always suggested to me that they "get" the proper role of sports in the educational experience, and in some cases, they turn kids into pretty good athletes in sports they might not have otherwise tried.
3. Outside of sports, there are plenty of other well supported extracurriculars. (My son was also heavily into tech/stage crew.) And in an era where many Catholic schools can be very dogma-focused, GNZ had an excellent balance between the dogmatic and the social justice doctrine, which is after all part of our faith. (I say this as a relatively conservative Catholic, and I also note that PVI, through its disabilities program, has an excellent reputation for this as well.)
4. I/he really liked the urban aspect of it, much more than I expected. Kids grow up and experience the joy of independence taking the metro to school. And, notwithstanding the increasing gentrification in the area, I think it reinforces the service-related elements of the experience. Obviously FFX is not ARL in terms of access, but if you are close to or pass near a Metro in your morning commute, don't let it dissuade you.
5. Regarding the single sex aspects , my son enjoyed it because he could be himself. And I do believe that translated to a better educational experience -- there are fewer social barriers to trying things that he might not have in a coed environment, and the boys support each other regardless of the activity. Also, though, I shouldn't have to say this, but I never witnessed any disrespectful behavior towards women or girls in his time there.
6. In a related vein, DO NOT underestimate or pooh-pooh the whole "brotherhood" concept that is often spoken of. At least not in this town. There are very strong bonds that are formed. And I do not have enough fingers and toes to count the number of times older gentlemen around town have come up to my son and introduced themselves out-of-the-blue when he was wearing GNZ logo stuff. He's too young to be "networking," but it's an added bonus I had not considered, that I will know will be there if he ever does need it.

Good luck. Both PVI and GNZ are fine schools.

Thank you for posting your thoughts and experiences.

We’ll be going to the Gonzaga open house tomorrow. If all works as planned, DS will decide Gonzaga, Bishop O’Connell or McLean HS. All good options.
Anonymous
Post 11/23/2019 08:19     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:Thinking about Paul VI and Gonzaga for DS high school in two years.

We live in Fairfax County so there will be a commute involved in either one.

Comparing them on www.niche.com they seem almost identical academically.

DS really likes sports, especially lacrosse.

Thoughts about choosing between them?


To OP, Gonzaga has an Open House tomorrow Nov. 24 from 10-2. Go visit and see what makes this school a special place for boys.
Anonymous
Post 11/23/2019 07:39     Subject: Re:Paul VI versus Gonzaga

OP- do the commute morning and late afternoon/evening. If your kid shadows take him in the way you would plan to have him get there every day. Traffic getting into and out of DC is no joke.

Location is way more important than some families consider- until it is a Mon-Fri reality. It affects study time, ability to hang out after school, even outside of school relationships.

We live in Arlington and the new Paul VI Loudoun campus would be way too far, as are many other schools we initially considered. We are a 10 min drive at 7:30am to GZ and live 2 walking blocks to Metro. This has helped considerably and made a more pleasant school experience. I can’t imagine my son having to travel 45 min (or more rush hour) to and from school everyday. Yes, kids do it. But, it is a drain and cuts into sleep/activities and study time.
Anonymous
Post 11/23/2019 06:57     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:While I'm not really in a position to compare PVI to GNZ (and I live in ARL), I will note that my son graduated from GNZ two years ago, and is now at UVA. It is a special place - candidly, I never really "got" Catholic education, let alone single sex education, until he went there. So fair warning, I'm a fanboy if you will, but I come by it honestly.

1. Academics were very solid. Wide range of elective courses. Solid writing instruction. He had to work pretty hard. And he came out thinking for himself, and working with others well.
2. What others say about lacrosse and other major stick-and-ball sports is true. You have to be good to play varsity. Sometimes really good. That said, the no-cut sports (eg, XC, hockey, rugby) always suggested to me that they "get" the proper role of sports in the educational experience, and in some cases, they turn kids into pretty good athletes in sports they might not have otherwise tried.
3. Outside of sports, there are plenty of other well supported extracurriculars. (My son was also heavily into tech/stage crew.) And in an era where many Catholic schools can be very dogma-focused, GNZ had an excellent balance between the dogmatic and the social justice doctrine, which is after all part of our faith. (I say this as a relatively conservative Catholic, and I also note that PVI, through its disabilities program, has an excellent reputation for this as well.)
4. I/he really liked the urban aspect of it, much more than I expected. Kids grow up and experience the joy of independence taking the metro to school. And, notwithstanding the increasing gentrification in the area, I think it reinforces the service-related elements of the experience. Obviously FFX is not ARL in terms of access, but if you are close to or pass near a Metro in your morning commute, don't let it dissuade you.
5. Regarding the single sex aspects , my son enjoyed it because he could be himself. And I do believe that translated to a better educational experience -- there are fewer social barriers to trying things that he might not have in a coed environment, and the boys support each other regardless of the activity. Also, though, I shouldn't have to say this, but I never witnessed any disrespectful behavior towards women or girls in his time there.
6. In a related vein, DO NOT underestimate or pooh-pooh the whole "brotherhood" concept that is often spoken of. At least not in this town. There are very strong bonds that are formed. And I do not have enough fingers and toes to count the number of times older gentlemen around town have come up to my son and introduced themselves out-of-the-blue when he was wearing GNZ logo stuff. He's too young to be "networking," but it's an added bonus I had not considered, that I will know will be there if he ever does need it.

Good luck. Both PVI and GNZ are fine schools.


These statements are basically true...

But for PVI
1. Ditto
2. Ditto
3. Ditto except GZ kids often have to travel 30-1 hr for sports practice
4. True, just like some kids love a suburban school with sprawling grounds and practice on campus.
5. Mom's of some Visi/etc girls would disagree.. but boys are disrespectful sometimes everywhere. To say it never happens ever at GZ in your experience is either disingenuous or head in the sand. (which is a little typical of GZ)
6. GZ has strong bonds, it's has more alum due to being around longer and more students, but all schools have the same bonds but are a little less cultist about it. Besides kids went to grade school together and you don't just stop being friends because you went to GZ, or at least I would hope not, and if that is the case that might be a negative.


This poster is super defensive about PVI -- which tells me that PP is clearly insecure. The first PP, although very pro GZ, had nothing negative to say about PVI (in fact was complimentary about it), but latter poster just had to take the opportunity to get the digs in about GZ. Definitely some inferiority complex issues going on here.

And FWIW, PVI doesn't seem to be transparent about its college admissions/matriculations. Gonzaga much more transparent because they have a great story to tell. My gut tells me that PVI students aren't getting in the same level of colleges as GZ.


Haha! So GZ.

My family goes to GZ and PVI and Visi and a host of other schools. Op has no experience with PVI and was neither positive nor negative. My responses were not negative just realistic. Your gut is delusional.

Why is GZ so defensive about having to travel for practices and kids from all
Schools have bonds which is essentially what my comparison says.


Nobody is being defensive about the travel to practices? Not sure where you got that. You are the one who brought it up.

And what is your response to college admissions and matriculations. Their vague list on the school profile only lists a bunch of colleges kids were admitted to over the years...no time span, no number of kids for each school, nothing. Any school can have a list like that. Anyone care to share naviance data for PVI for the top 20 USNWR universities? I'll bet it's not nearly as strong as GZ.

Oh, and what about National Merit Semifinalists? I did a little research and it seems PVI has none this year. https://www.catholicherald.com/news/local_news/schools/diocesan_students_reach_national_merit_semifinals,_achieve_ap_scholar_awards/

Gonzaga has two students who made National Merit Semifinalist.

And just for the record (because I just saw the DC list) SJC had none as well.

Just sayin'.


Here is the DC list of NMSF. It should be noted that the cutoff for DC was 223 vs 222 for VA and MD...so it was particularly challenging for kids to make this in DC this year.

Basis School: Lena E. Cavicchia
Field School: Annika Torng
Georgetown Day High School: William E. Finkelstein, Natasha Zimmermann
Georgetown Visitation Preparatory School: Kiera E. Dent, Cecelia A. Swartz
Gonzaga High School: James C. Garland, Joshua D. Pfefferkorn
Maret School: Kathryn S. Hahm, Claiborne H. Hartman
National Cathedral School: Elizabeth A. Borgmann, Sophia A. Charles, Amelia M. Giffin, Audrey E. May, Iris Wu
School Without Walls: Aryaman Arora
Sidwell Friends School: Curran Chopra, Kiran A. Deol, Benjamin T Fagell, Henry Fant, Ishaan Kumar, Aleksandr P. Kuzmenchuk, Gillian M. La Vina, Harris N. Panner, Luke H. Primis, Joe H. Schwabacher, Mihir Singh, Nicholas Spasojevic, Timothy A. Ward
St. Albans School: Matthew A. Chalk, David A. Hla, Nolan W. Musslewhite,William G. Nash, Yash S. Somaiya, Constantine G. Tsibouris
St. Anselm's Abbey School: Antoni W. Wellisz
Washington International School: Joshua J. Roberts
Washington Latin Charter School: Benjamin Weinberger
Woodrow Wilson High School: Gabrielle S. Aladjem

Anonymous
Post 11/23/2019 06:51     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:While I'm not really in a position to compare PVI to GNZ (and I live in ARL), I will note that my son graduated from GNZ two years ago, and is now at UVA. It is a special place - candidly, I never really "got" Catholic education, let alone single sex education, until he went there. So fair warning, I'm a fanboy if you will, but I come by it honestly.

1. Academics were very solid. Wide range of elective courses. Solid writing instruction. He had to work pretty hard. And he came out thinking for himself, and working with others well.
2. What others say about lacrosse and other major stick-and-ball sports is true. You have to be good to play varsity. Sometimes really good. That said, the no-cut sports (eg, XC, hockey, rugby) always suggested to me that they "get" the proper role of sports in the educational experience, and in some cases, they turn kids into pretty good athletes in sports they might not have otherwise tried.
3. Outside of sports, there are plenty of other well supported extracurriculars. (My son was also heavily into tech/stage crew.) And in an era where many Catholic schools can be very dogma-focused, GNZ had an excellent balance between the dogmatic and the social justice doctrine, which is after all part of our faith. (I say this as a relatively conservative Catholic, and I also note that PVI, through its disabilities program, has an excellent reputation for this as well.)
4. I/he really liked the urban aspect of it, much more than I expected. Kids grow up and experience the joy of independence taking the metro to school. And, notwithstanding the increasing gentrification in the area, I think it reinforces the service-related elements of the experience. Obviously FFX is not ARL in terms of access, but if you are close to or pass near a Metro in your morning commute, don't let it dissuade you.
5. Regarding the single sex aspects , my son enjoyed it because he could be himself. And I do believe that translated to a better educational experience -- there are fewer social barriers to trying things that he might not have in a coed environment, and the boys support each other regardless of the activity. Also, though, I shouldn't have to say this, but I never witnessed any disrespectful behavior towards women or girls in his time there.
6. In a related vein, DO NOT underestimate or pooh-pooh the whole "brotherhood" concept that is often spoken of. At least not in this town. There are very strong bonds that are formed. And I do not have enough fingers and toes to count the number of times older gentlemen around town have come up to my son and introduced themselves out-of-the-blue when he was wearing GNZ logo stuff. He's too young to be "networking," but it's an added bonus I had not considered, that I will know will be there if he ever does need it.

Good luck. Both PVI and GNZ are fine schools.


These statements are basically true...

But for PVI
1. Ditto
2. Ditto
3. Ditto except GZ kids often have to travel 30-1 hr for sports practice
4. True, just like some kids love a suburban school with sprawling grounds and practice on campus.
5. Mom's of some Visi/etc girls would disagree.. but boys are disrespectful sometimes everywhere. To say it never happens ever at GZ in your experience is either disingenuous or head in the sand. (which is a little typical of GZ)
6. GZ has strong bonds, it's has more alum due to being around longer and more students, but all schools have the same bonds but are a little less cultist about it. Besides kids went to grade school together and you don't just stop being friends because you went to GZ, or at least I would hope not, and if that is the case that might be a negative.


This poster is super defensive about PVI -- which tells me that PP is clearly insecure. The first PP, although very pro GZ, had nothing negative to say about PVI (in fact was complimentary about it), but latter poster just had to take the opportunity to get the digs in about GZ. Definitely some inferiority complex issues going on here.

And FWIW, PVI doesn't seem to be transparent about its college admissions/matriculations. Gonzaga much more transparent because they have a great story to tell. My gut tells me that PVI students aren't getting in the same level of colleges as GZ.


Haha! So GZ.

My family goes to GZ and PVI and Visi and a host of other schools. Op has no experience with PVI and was neither positive nor negative. My responses were not negative just realistic. Your gut is delusional.

Why is GZ so defensive about having to travel for practices and kids from all
Schools have bonds which is essentially what my comparison says.


Nobody is being defensive about the travel to practices? Not sure where you got that. You are the one who brought it up.

And what is your response to college admissions and matriculations. Their vague list on the school profile only lists a bunch of colleges kids were admitted to over the years...no time span, no number of kids for each school, nothing. Any school can have a list like that. Anyone care to share naviance data for PVI for the top 20 USNWR universities? I'll bet it's not nearly as strong as GZ.

Oh, and what about National Merit Semifinalists? I did a little research and it seems PVI has none this year. https://www.catholicherald.com/news/local_news/schools/diocesan_students_reach_national_merit_semifinals,_achieve_ap_scholar_awards/

Gonzaga has two students who made National Merit Semifinalist.

And just for the record (because I just saw the DC list) SJC had none as well.

Just sayin'.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 23:58     Subject: Re:Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Re#5...of course they would. But I am being neither disingenuous nor putting my head in the sand. I spent a fair amount of time around campus, much of it associated with activities that were coed, and did not see


That’s like saying I never saw GZ guys shot gun beers therefore it never happened. Come on man! GZ booster club was banned from twitter for posting porn on their school run account... 3 yrs ago..
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 23:49     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:While I'm not really in a position to compare PVI to GNZ (and I live in ARL), I will note that my son graduated from GNZ two years ago, and is now at UVA. It is a special place - candidly, I never really "got" Catholic education, let alone single sex education, until he went there. So fair warning, I'm a fanboy if you will, but I come by it honestly.

1. Academics were very solid. Wide range of elective courses. Solid writing instruction. He had to work pretty hard. And he came out thinking for himself, and working with others well.
2. What others say about lacrosse and other major stick-and-ball sports is true. You have to be good to play varsity. Sometimes really good. That said, the no-cut sports (eg, XC, hockey, rugby) always suggested to me that they "get" the proper role of sports in the educational experience, and in some cases, they turn kids into pretty good athletes in sports they might not have otherwise tried.
3. Outside of sports, there are plenty of other well supported extracurriculars. (My son was also heavily into tech/stage crew.) And in an era where many Catholic schools can be very dogma-focused, GNZ had an excellent balance between the dogmatic and the social justice doctrine, which is after all part of our faith. (I say this as a relatively conservative Catholic, and I also note that PVI, through its disabilities program, has an excellent reputation for this as well.)
4. I/he really liked the urban aspect of it, much more than I expected. Kids grow up and experience the joy of independence taking the metro to school. And, notwithstanding the increasing gentrification in the area, I think it reinforces the service-related elements of the experience. Obviously FFX is not ARL in terms of access, but if you are close to or pass near a Metro in your morning commute, don't let it dissuade you.
5. Regarding the single sex aspects , my son enjoyed it because he could be himself. And I do believe that translated to a better educational experience -- there are fewer social barriers to trying things that he might not have in a coed environment, and the boys support each other regardless of the activity. Also, though, I shouldn't have to say this, but I never witnessed any disrespectful behavior towards women or girls in his time there.
6. In a related vein, DO NOT underestimate or pooh-pooh the whole "brotherhood" concept that is often spoken of. At least not in this town. There are very strong bonds that are formed. And I do not have enough fingers and toes to count the number of times older gentlemen around town have come up to my son and introduced themselves out-of-the-blue when he was wearing GNZ logo stuff. He's too young to be "networking," but it's an added bonus I had not considered, that I will know will be there if he ever does need it.

Good luck. Both PVI and GNZ are fine schools.


These statements are basically true...

But for PVI
1. Ditto
2. Ditto
3. Ditto except GZ kids often have to travel 30-1 hr for sports practice
4. True, just like some kids love a suburban school with sprawling grounds and practice on campus.
5. Mom's of some Visi/etc girls would disagree.. but boys are disrespectful sometimes everywhere. To say it never happens ever at GZ in your experience is either disingenuous or head in the sand. (which is a little typical of GZ)
6. GZ has strong bonds, it's has more alum due to being around longer and more students, but all schools have the same bonds but are a little less cultist about it. Besides kids went to grade school together and you don't just stop being friends because you went to GZ, or at least I would hope not, and if that is the case that might be a negative.


This poster is super defensive about PVI -- which tells me that PP is clearly insecure. The first PP, although very pro GZ, had nothing negative to say about PVI (in fact was complimentary about it), but latter poster just had to take the opportunity to get the digs in about GZ. Definitely some inferiority complex issues going on here.

And FWIW, PVI doesn't seem to be transparent about its college admissions/matriculations. Gonzaga much more transparent because they have a great story to tell. My gut tells me that PVI students aren't getting in the same level of colleges as GZ.


Haha! So GZ.

My family goes to GZ and PVI and Visi and a host of other schools. Op has no experience with PVI and was neither positive nor negative. My responses were not negative just realistic. Your gut is delusional.

Why is GZ so defensive about having to travel for practices and kids from all
Schools have bonds which is essentially what my comparison says.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 16:09     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:While I'm not really in a position to compare PVI to GNZ (and I live in ARL), I will note that my son graduated from GNZ two years ago, and is now at UVA. It is a special place - candidly, I never really "got" Catholic education, let alone single sex education, until he went there. So fair warning, I'm a fanboy if you will, but I come by it honestly.

1. Academics were very solid. Wide range of elective courses. Solid writing instruction. He had to work pretty hard. And he came out thinking for himself, and working with others well.
2. What others say about lacrosse and other major stick-and-ball sports is true. You have to be good to play varsity. Sometimes really good. That said, the no-cut sports (eg, XC, hockey, rugby) always suggested to me that they "get" the proper role of sports in the educational experience, and in some cases, they turn kids into pretty good athletes in sports they might not have otherwise tried.
3. Outside of sports, there are plenty of other well supported extracurriculars. (My son was also heavily into tech/stage crew.) And in an era where many Catholic schools can be very dogma-focused, GNZ had an excellent balance between the dogmatic and the social justice doctrine, which is after all part of our faith. (I say this as a relatively conservative Catholic, and I also note that PVI, through its disabilities program, has an excellent reputation for this as well.)
4. I/he really liked the urban aspect of it, much more than I expected. Kids grow up and experience the joy of independence taking the metro to school. And, notwithstanding the increasing gentrification in the area, I think it reinforces the service-related elements of the experience. Obviously FFX is not ARL in terms of access, but if you are close to or pass near a Metro in your morning commute, don't let it dissuade you.
5. Regarding the single sex aspects , my son enjoyed it because he could be himself. And I do believe that translated to a better educational experience -- there are fewer social barriers to trying things that he might not have in a coed environment, and the boys support each other regardless of the activity. Also, though, I shouldn't have to say this, but I never witnessed any disrespectful behavior towards women or girls in his time there.
6. In a related vein, DO NOT underestimate or pooh-pooh the whole "brotherhood" concept that is often spoken of. At least not in this town. There are very strong bonds that are formed. And I do not have enough fingers and toes to count the number of times older gentlemen around town have come up to my son and introduced themselves out-of-the-blue when he was wearing GNZ logo stuff. He's too young to be "networking," but it's an added bonus I had not considered, that I will know will be there if he ever does need it.

Good luck. Both PVI and GNZ are fine schools.


These statements are basically true...

But for PVI
1. Ditto
2. Ditto
3. Ditto except GZ kids often have to travel 30-1 hr for sports practice
4. True, just like some kids love a suburban school with sprawling grounds and practice on campus.
5. Mom's of some Visi/etc girls would disagree.. but boys are disrespectful sometimes everywhere. To say it never happens ever at GZ in your experience is either disingenuous or head in the sand. (which is a little typical of GZ)
6. GZ has strong bonds, it's has more alum due to being around longer and more students, but all schools have the same bonds but are a little less cultist about it. Besides kids went to grade school together and you don't just stop being friends because you went to GZ, or at least I would hope not, and if that is the case that might be a negative.


This poster is super defensive about PVI -- which tells me that PP is clearly insecure. The first PP, although very pro GZ, had nothing negative to say about PVI (in fact was complimentary about it), but latter poster just had to take the opportunity to get the digs in about GZ. Definitely some inferiority complex issues going on here.

And FWIW, PVI doesn't seem to be transparent about its college admissions/matriculations. Gonzaga much more transparent because they have a great story to tell. My gut tells me that PVI students aren't getting in the same level of colleges as GZ.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 14:51     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:While I'm not really in a position to compare PVI to GNZ (and I live in ARL), I will note that my son graduated from GNZ two years ago, and is now at UVA. It is a special place - candidly, I never really "got" Catholic education, let alone single sex education, until he went there. So fair warning, I'm a fanboy if you will, but I come by it honestly.

1. Academics were very solid. Wide range of elective courses. Solid writing instruction. He had to work pretty hard. And he came out thinking for himself, and working with others well.
2. What others say about lacrosse and other major stick-and-ball sports is true. You have to be good to play varsity. Sometimes really good. That said, the no-cut sports (eg, XC, hockey, rugby) always suggested to me that they "get" the proper role of sports in the educational experience, and in some cases, they turn kids into pretty good athletes in sports they might not have otherwise tried.
3. Outside of sports, there are plenty of other well supported extracurriculars. (My son was also heavily into tech/stage crew.) And in an era where many Catholic schools can be very dogma-focused, GNZ had an excellent balance between the dogmatic and the social justice doctrine, which is after all part of our faith. (I say this as a relatively conservative Catholic, and I also note that PVI, through its disabilities program, has an excellent reputation for this as well.)
4. I/he really liked the urban aspect of it, much more than I expected. Kids grow up and experience the joy of independence taking the metro to school. And, notwithstanding the increasing gentrification in the area, I think it reinforces the service-related elements of the experience. Obviously FFX is not ARL in terms of access, but if you are close to or pass near a Metro in your morning commute, don't let it dissuade you.
5. Regarding the single sex aspects , my son enjoyed it because he could be himself. And I do believe that translated to a better educational experience -- there are fewer social barriers to trying things that he might not have in a coed environment, and the boys support each other regardless of the activity. Also, though, I shouldn't have to say this, but I never witnessed any disrespectful behavior towards women or girls in his time there.
6. In a related vein, DO NOT underestimate or pooh-pooh the whole "brotherhood" concept that is often spoken of. At least not in this town. There are very strong bonds that are formed. And I do not have enough fingers and toes to count the number of times older gentlemen around town have come up to my son and introduced themselves out-of-the-blue when he was wearing GNZ logo stuff. He's too young to be "networking," but it's an added bonus I had not considered, that I will know will be there if he ever does need it.

Good luck. Both PVI and GNZ are fine schools.


These statements are basically true...

But for PVI
1. Ditto
2. Ditto
3. Ditto except GZ kids often have to travel 30-1 hr for sports practice
4. True, just like some kids love a suburban school with sprawling grounds and practice on campus.
5. Mom's of some Visi/etc girls would disagree.. but boys are disrespectful sometimes everywhere. To say it never happens ever at GZ in your experience is either disingenuous or head in the sand. (which is a little typical of GZ)
6. GZ has strong bonds, it's has more alum due to being around longer and more students, but all schools have the same bonds but are a little less cultist about it. Besides kids went to grade school together and you don't just stop being friends because you went to GZ, or at least I would hope not, and if that is the case that might be a negative.


Re #3, In my experience, many/most of them hung out at the school as if it were a second home for practices or other activities, which from my perspective was kinda cool. Again, independence. (Note, I don't know where LAX practices or the circumstances thereof. My son played hockey. All kids travel for hockey practice; Part of the uniform.)
Re #4, no doubt, a suburban experience is neither better nor worse, it's just different and I'm relaying our somewhat surprisingly positive experience.
Re #5, of course they would. But I am being neither disingenuous nor putting my head in the sand. I spent a fair amount of time around campus, much of it associated with activities that were coed, and did not see it.
Re #6, yes there are bonds, and I've seen the local versions of them up close. GNZ is just different and IMO more durable - cultish is totally fair, but in a good way (as you can see I've partaken of the Koolaid). As to grade school friendships, I'm not sure how you inferred that somehow that might go out the window, but nothing could be further from the truth in our case.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 14:30     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:While I'm not really in a position to compare PVI to GNZ (and I live in ARL), I will note that my son graduated from GNZ two years ago, and is now at UVA. It is a special place - candidly, I never really "got" Catholic education, let alone single sex education, until he went there. So fair warning, I'm a fanboy if you will, but I come by it honestly.

1. Academics were very solid. Wide range of elective courses. Solid writing instruction. He had to work pretty hard. And he came out thinking for himself, and working with others well.
2. What others say about lacrosse and other major stick-and-ball sports is true. You have to be good to play varsity. Sometimes really good. That said, the no-cut sports (eg, XC, hockey, rugby) always suggested to me that they "get" the proper role of sports in the educational experience, and in some cases, they turn kids into pretty good athletes in sports they might not have otherwise tried.
3. Outside of sports, there are plenty of other well supported extracurriculars. (My son was also heavily into tech/stage crew.) And in an era where many Catholic schools can be very dogma-focused, GNZ had an excellent balance between the dogmatic and the social justice doctrine, which is after all part of our faith. (I say this as a relatively conservative Catholic, and I also note that PVI, through its disabilities program, has an excellent reputation for this as well.)
4. I/he really liked the urban aspect of it, much more than I expected. Kids grow up and experience the joy of independence taking the metro to school. And, notwithstanding the increasing gentrification in the area, I think it reinforces the service-related elements of the experience. Obviously FFX is not ARL in terms of access, but if you are close to or pass near a Metro in your morning commute, don't let it dissuade you.
5. Regarding the single sex aspects , my son enjoyed it because he could be himself. And I do believe that translated to a better educational experience -- there are fewer social barriers to trying things that he might not have in a coed environment, and the boys support each other regardless of the activity. Also, though, I shouldn't have to say this, but I never witnessed any disrespectful behavior towards women or girls in his time there.
6. In a related vein, DO NOT underestimate or pooh-pooh the whole "brotherhood" concept that is often spoken of. At least not in this town. There are very strong bonds that are formed. And I do not have enough fingers and toes to count the number of times older gentlemen around town have come up to my son and introduced themselves out-of-the-blue when he was wearing GNZ logo stuff. He's too young to be "networking," but it's an added bonus I had not considered, that I will know will be there if he ever does need it.

Good luck. Both PVI and GNZ are fine schools.


These statements are basically true...

But for PVI
1. Ditto
2. Ditto
3. Ditto except GZ kids often have to travel 30-1 hr for sports practice
4. True, just like some kids love a suburban school with sprawling grounds and practice on campus.
5. Mom's of some Visi/etc girls would disagree.. but boys are disrespectful sometimes everywhere. To say it never happens ever at GZ in your experience is either disingenuous or head in the sand. (which is a little typical of GZ)
6. GZ has strong bonds, it's has more alum due to being around longer and more students, but all schools have the same bonds but are a little less cultist about it. Besides kids went to grade school together and you don't just stop being friends because you went to GZ, or at least I would hope not, and if that is the case that might be a negative.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 14:14     Subject: Re:Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PVI is coed, in the burbs and has a program for children with disabilities.
Gonzaga is all boys, in the city and has a soup kitchen on campus.

Both lax teams are excellent/hard to make.

Academics are the same.

Prep guy here. Academics are NOT the same. GZ is far superior. It’s like comparing Bullis with Prep.


You are not a credible opinion.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 13:04     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

While I'm not really in a position to compare PVI to GNZ (and I live in ARL), I will note that my son graduated from GNZ two years ago, and is now at UVA. It is a special place - candidly, I never really "got" Catholic education, let alone single sex education, until he went there. So fair warning, I'm a fanboy if you will, but I come by it honestly.

1. Academics were very solid. Wide range of elective courses. Solid writing instruction. He had to work pretty hard. And he came out thinking for himself, and working with others well.
2. What others say about lacrosse and other major stick-and-ball sports is true. You have to be good to play varsity. Sometimes really good. That said, the no-cut sports (eg, XC, hockey, rugby) always suggested to me that they "get" the proper role of sports in the educational experience, and in some cases, they turn kids into pretty good athletes in sports they might not have otherwise tried.
3. Outside of sports, there are plenty of other well supported extracurriculars. (My son was also heavily into tech/stage crew.) And in an era where many Catholic schools can be very dogma-focused, GNZ had an excellent balance between the dogmatic and the social justice doctrine, which is after all part of our faith. (I say this as a relatively conservative Catholic, and I also note that PVI, through its disabilities program, has an excellent reputation for this as well.)
4. I/he really liked the urban aspect of it, much more than I expected. Kids grow up and experience the joy of independence taking the metro to school. And, notwithstanding the increasing gentrification in the area, I think it reinforces the service-related elements of the experience. Obviously FFX is not ARL in terms of access, but if you are close to or pass near a Metro in your morning commute, don't let it dissuade you.
5. Regarding the single sex aspects , my son enjoyed it because he could be himself. And I do believe that translated to a better educational experience -- there are fewer social barriers to trying things that he might not have in a coed environment, and the boys support each other regardless of the activity. Also, though, I shouldn't have to say this, but I never witnessed any disrespectful behavior towards women or girls in his time there.
6. In a related vein, DO NOT underestimate or pooh-pooh the whole "brotherhood" concept that is often spoken of. At least not in this town. There are very strong bonds that are formed. And I do not have enough fingers and toes to count the number of times older gentlemen around town have come up to my son and introduced themselves out-of-the-blue when he was wearing GNZ logo stuff. He's too young to be "networking," but it's an added bonus I had not considered, that I will know will be there if he ever does need it.

Good luck. Both PVI and GNZ are fine schools.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 12:58     Subject: Re:Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Niche averages are based on student reported scores. If three students give Niche their scores, that’s not reliable information.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 11:51     Subject: Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Don’t believe niche. Those may or may not be updated. Go PVI. New campus is amazing. School is great. Co-Ed is worth it. Friends will likely be nearby.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2019 10:34     Subject: Re:Paul VI versus Gonzaga

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PVI is coed, in the burbs and has a program for children with disabilities.
Gonzaga is all boys, in the city and has a soup kitchen on campus.

Both lax teams are excellent/hard to make.

Academics are the same.

Prep guy here. Academics are NOT the same. GZ is far superior. It’s like comparing Bullis with Prep.


OP here. Sadly "comparing Bullis with Prep" means nothing to me. All I see is what Niche says:

GZ - average SAT 1300, average ACT 30
PVI - average SAT 1260, average ACT 29

Guess I need to do some research into why GZ academics is superior...