Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Growing up, my mom used to load the couch and the floor below full of gifts. From hot ticket items (Nintendo NES!) to small useful “things” (cookies, hair bands, brushes, favorite soda) to clothes to books. So much stuff.
I feel this pull to do the same for mine, even though I know it’s excessive and ridiculous. So far I’ve not gone that far, even though I remember what it felt like to walk out and see that couch. But my kid doesn’t NEED that stuff and neither did I, frankly.
We usually get one big thing (bike, American Girl set, this year, roller blades.) some books, pajamas, art supplies, and little toys (LOL, blind bags) in stocking. Maybe 15 actual things to open.
Don't they also get tons of gifts from grandparents, other family, etc.? How many presents total are they opening?
Anonymous wrote:My kids get a lot compared to others on DCUM, apparently. We basically only do gifts for Christmas & birthday. Their “fun” gifts are not expensive. They get a few toys but also things like used books, snow boots, clothes they needed anyway, or something they need for their sport.
Anonymous wrote:Growing up, my mom used to load the couch and the floor below full of gifts. From hot ticket items (Nintendo NES!) to small useful “things” (cookies, hair bands, brushes, favorite soda) to clothes to books. So much stuff.
I feel this pull to do the same for mine, even though I know it’s excessive and ridiculous. So far I’ve not gone that far, even though I remember what it felt like to walk out and see that couch. But my kid doesn’t NEED that stuff and neither did I, frankly.
We usually get one big thing (bike, American Girl set, this year, roller blades.) some books, pajamas, art supplies, and little toys (LOL, blind bags) in stocking. Maybe 15 actual things to open.
Anonymous wrote:No set number, but he usually winds up with a lot. We don’t buy much during the year. If we did then we’d probably do less. I would just do what you want and not worry about the opinions on here.