OP, my youngest child is gay. He came out at 14. He is 17 now. I am sorry your child is hurting. I have been there and it sucks. You need to be a loud advocate. No one wants to be that parent. But you have to do it. The school’s response is unacceptable. First, reach out to your local Equality Group. You’ll probably find them on Facebook. Ask for help. There are LGTBQ leaders, students, parents, and allies who will get involved and help. You don’t need to reinvent the wheel. They will guide you through the steps. By doing this, your son will learn that he is not alone. He will learn to take back his power. Does your school have a GSA? If not, it’s time to start one. Every incident of bullying needs to be documented in writing. Do not allow the school to intimidate you. CC School Board Members and the Superintendent on every email. Speak at School Board Meetings. Get involved in advocacy groups. Remember, this isn’t just about your child. There are other kids struggling as well. Allow your child to be involved in advocating for himself and for those who cannot speak.