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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

That wasn’t my question but thanks for the unnecessary judgement when you have no idea the context of the event.

You’re welcome. Enjoy looking foolish.

Way to ruin the thread with your rudeness, pp.

Literally don’t care. It sounds from the original post like the bride hasn’t even signed off on this. OP is a typical entitled mom who thinks the world revolves around her child. “My daughter wants us to match.” That doesn’t matter; what matters is what the bride wants. It’s not about OP, but she wants it to be.

God forbid someone else look cute on some Bridezilla's day. FFS. It's worth a 30 second glance. Nobody pays that much attention to wedding guests.

There’s no bridezilla issue. It’s just good etiquette and being a good friend/guest to not dress in a way—or in some matchy matchy schtick—that upstages the bride, wedding party (which OP is not a part of) or seeks attention in some other way. The bride seemingly has not demanded anything at all so there is no bridezilla implication, but OP seems tone deaf to what would be good etiquette. It’s not about you, OP. It’s not even about your daughter.

Can you read?

OP's daughter is the flower girl. OP is walking the daughter down the aisle.

This does not make OP part of the wedding party.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

That wasn’t my question but thanks for the unnecessary judgement when you have no idea the context of the event.

You’re welcome. Enjoy looking foolish.

Way to ruin the thread with your rudeness, pp.

Literally don’t care. It sounds from the original post like the bride hasn’t even signed off on this. OP is a typical entitled mom who thinks the world revolves around her child. “My daughter wants us to match.” That doesn’t matter; what matters is what the bride wants. It’s not about OP, but she wants it to be.

God forbid someone else look cute on some Bridezilla's day. FFS. It's worth a 30 second glance. Nobody pays that much attention to wedding guests.

There’s no bridezilla issue. It’s just good etiquette and being a good friend/guest to not dress in a way—or in some matchy matchy schtick—that upstages the bride, wedding party (which OP is not a part of) or seeks attention in some other way. The bride seemingly has not demanded anything at all so there is no bridezilla implication, but OP seems tone deaf to what would be good etiquette. It’s not about you, OP. It’s not even about your daughter.

Can you read?

OP's daughter is the flower girl. OP is walking the daughter down the aisle.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

That wasn’t my question but thanks for the unnecessary judgement when you have no idea the context of the event.

You’re welcome. Enjoy looking foolish.

Way to ruin the thread with your rudeness, pp.

Literally don’t care. It sounds from the original post like the bride hasn’t even signed off on this. OP is a typical entitled mom who thinks the world revolves around her child. “My daughter wants us to match.” That doesn’t matter; what matters is what the bride wants. It’s not about OP, but she wants it to be.

God forbid someone else look cute on some Bridezilla's day. FFS. It's worth a 30 second glance. Nobody pays that much attention to wedding guests.

There’s no bridezilla issue. It’s just good etiquette and being a good friend/guest to not dress in a way—or in some matchy matchy schtick—that upstages the bride, wedding party (which OP is not a part of) or seeks attention in some other way. The bride seemingly has not demanded anything at all so there is no bridezilla implication, but OP seems tone deaf to what would be good etiquette. It’s not about you, OP. It’s not even about your daughter.

DP. For my personal taste, I don't care for the matchy thing. But, OP is not me and she is free to do as she wishes.

One thing I would consider if OP, is that what looks good on a three year old may not look good on her mother. I doubt that a three year old would notice if the style is not the same.

For this occasion, I would suggest dresses that are in the same fabric, but not the same style. But, again, this is up to OP. I especially dislike three year olds dressed as adults, but some people think it's cute.
Most three year old girls would love wearing a traditional flower girl dress--a dress with a full skirt with a satin sash. If I were choosing, that is what my child would wear. Preferably white with a sash matching the bridesmaid's color. But, if OP wants to match, I would definitely not choose white.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

That wasn’t my question but thanks for the unnecessary judgement when you have no idea the context of the event.

You’re welcome. Enjoy looking foolish.

Way to ruin the thread with your rudeness, pp.

Literally don’t care. It sounds from the original post like the bride hasn’t even signed off on this. OP is a typical entitled mom who thinks the world revolves around her child. “My daughter wants us to match.” That doesn’t matter; what matters is what the bride wants. It’s not about OP, but she wants it to be.

God forbid someone else look cute on some Bridezilla's day. FFS. It's worth a 30 second glance. Nobody pays that much attention to wedding guests.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

That wasn’t my question but thanks for the unnecessary judgement when you have no idea the context of the event.

You’re welcome. Enjoy looking foolish.

Way to ruin the thread with your rudeness, pp.

Literally don’t care. It sounds from the original post like the bride hasn’t even signed off on this. OP is a typical entitled mom who thinks the world revolves around her child. “My daughter wants us to match.” That doesn’t matter; what matters is what the bride wants. It’s not about OP, but she wants it to be.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

I dont think you are grabbing too much attn. Most ppl can pull off anything if their behavior is correct. Plus there is a lot of latitude given to toddlers.

It will be clear the toddler wasn’t the one who went shopping. OP is trying to be all “omg my daughter and I are sooooo cute, look at us!!” at sometime else’s event. So trashy and gauche.

This is a small family wedding. She’s the only kid and the flower girl. We are matching because I have to walk her down the aisle. Geez y’all are horrible.

It sounds very nice! It will look like you made an effort! Mother daughter matching dresses are always classic and appropriate particularly if you are
walking the flower girl down the aisle.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

I dont think you are grabbing too much attn. Most ppl can pull off anything if their behavior is correct. Plus there is a lot of latitude given to toddlers.

It will be clear the toddler wasn’t the one who went shopping. OP is trying to be all “omg my daughter and I are sooooo cute, look at us!!” at sometime else’s event. So trashy and gauche.

This is a small family wedding. She’s the only kid and the flower girl. We are matching because I have to walk her down the aisle. Geez y’all are horrible.

I agree with PP, although I wouldn’t say trashy, just entitled and attention grabbing. OP, it seems as if your story has changed a bit. But either way you’re not in the wedding right? If not why are you walking her down the aisle? Did the bride approve of this and your clothing? It’s her day after all and you really should get her approval. Did your 3 year old actually say she wants to “match” you? That’s a bit much for a 3 year old to say so what’s the real story here?

My daughter and I match in Ulla Johnson. The quality and fit is unbelievable and the dress will last two years and then transition to a top longer than that.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

That wasn’t my question but thanks for the unnecessary judgement when you have no idea the context of the event.

You’re welcome. Enjoy looking foolish.

Way to ruin the thread with your rudeness, pp.

Literally don’t care. It sounds from the original post like the bride hasn’t even signed off on this. OP is a typical entitled mom who thinks the world revolves around her child. “My daughter wants us to match.” That doesn’t matter; what matters is what the bride wants. It’s not about OP, but she wants it to be.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

That wasn’t my question but thanks for the unnecessary judgement when you have no idea the context of the event.

You’re welcome. Enjoy looking foolish.

Way to ruin the thread with your rudeness, pp.

Amazon/Pat Pat on Amazon.

My 2 year old loves when she gets to dress just like me and I think it's fun. I get lots of "oh how CUTE [smirk]" but I just take the "cute" and ignore the rest.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

I dont think you are grabbing too much attn. Most ppl can pull off anything if their behavior is correct. Plus there is a lot of latitude given to toddlers.

It will be clear the toddler wasn’t the one who went shopping. OP is trying to be all “omg my daughter and I are sooooo cute, look at us!!” at sometime else’s event. So trashy and gauche.

This is a small family wedding. She’s the only kid and the flower girl. We are matching because I have to walk her down the aisle. Geez y’all are horrible.

NP -- Check J Crew for this, since they make cocktail dresses for bridesmaids and flower girl dresses. (I'm assuming you checked with the bride to make sure it's okay -- people will assume that you are part of the wedding party if you match the flower girl. If she's a chill bride, she won't care....but weddings turn ordinarily chill people into people with anxiety/control issues.)

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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.

I dont think you are grabbing too much attn. Most ppl can pull off anything if their behavior is correct. Plus there is a lot of latitude given to toddlers.

It will be clear the toddler wasn’t the one who went shopping. OP is trying to be all “omg my daughter and I are sooooo cute, look at us!!” at sometime else’s event. So trashy and gauche.

This is a small family wedding. She’s the only kid and the flower girl. We are matching because I have to walk her down the aisle. Geez y’all are horrible.