A friend recently told me that her husband says he resents marrying her and that he doesn’t appreciate her. I asked if she’d considered counseling and she said they’d been in counseling for years and then I said “are you thinking about divorce?” And she said she’d never divorce (doesn’t believe in it).
My mom said some awful stuff about my dad, but I’m skeptical it’s true. I told her I’d help her with a divorce if that’s what she wanted and similarly she said she’d never divorce. I told her “if I said my husband was treating me that way, you’d worry about me every minute until I left him” and told her I’d support her if she ever changed her mind.