Anonymous wrote:Come on...it's not that confusing. They probably decided they were done with kids and OP (like many of us) preferred her husband to get a vasectomy vs having to be on birth control. Now OP is kind of regretting it and wants another kid. But before she brings it up with DH, she wants stories.
Personally I think if you've gone the vasectomy route, you should re examine what it was that made you decide to stop at however many kids you have. Sometimes I wish we could have another one. Then I remember the reasons why we decided to stop after DS.
I would imagine that most people hanging out on the INFERTILITY board haven't been in the position to decide they were done with having kids.