Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Both? Sex and then nap.

Gold star answer.

DH and I used to do this all the time. When I said, "I need a nap", his eyes got big, and he would dash off to the BR. Sex, then nap, or vice versa. This was before kids. We still joke around about the "naps".

Why not both? Either it will help him sleep better or he will be energized from the nap