Anonymous
Post 12/06/2020 09:43     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Dad/dad families are usually rich rich and thus rare in any context.
Anonymous
Post 12/06/2020 09:38     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Gay couple in DC with two kids. Completely love DCUM, especially the forums and threads that get so catty. Having reason to be on DCUM is a secret side benefit of having kids. So much fun. Rainbow families is a great group.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2020 21:09     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
The Rainbow Families all- day conference in ther spring is wonderful and huge. Also has lots of activities for kids.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2020 17:16     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:there is a very large gay fathers group on FB with some DC-area folks


What is it called?


Gay Fathers, seahorse logo thingy
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2020 00:04     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Anonymous wrote:there is a very large gay fathers group on FB with some DC-area folks


What is it called?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2020 20:06     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
there is a very large gay fathers group on FB with some DC-area folks
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2020 16:54     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
I know a few in our EOTP NW neighborhood (although far more DINKS). Maybe they’re just not on DCUM.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2020 16:42     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
gay dad here with a hubs and two kids, 5 and 7, Olney. Just don't come in this forum much...
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2020 16:46     Subject: Re:How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP, I don't think your going to find any place where two Dad families are going to be common. Are you sure you don't mean, how accepted are two Dad families?


Op here. I know that. I was just hoping ithat it might be more than 2-3 people on dcum but apparently not. Incidentally I looked it up. As of the end of 2016 ( most recent year for which statistics were available) there 28,000 gay male couples with kids in the us.


That seems incredibly low. I know four families, though in one case, one dad was previously married to a woman and the other dad is a stepfather.


Op here. I would have thought it was higher but I have to tell you while it isn’t super rare it really is uncommon and I say that having been a gay father for 9 years living in dc. My cite is reliable: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/research/parenting/how-many-same-sex-parents-in-us/ albeit slightly outdated.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2020 17:33     Subject: Re:How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP, I don't think your going to find any place where two Dad families are going to be common. Are you sure you don't mean, how accepted are two Dad families?


Op here. I know that. I was just hoping ithat it might be more than 2-3 people on dcum but apparently not. Incidentally I looked it up. As of the end of 2016 ( most recent year for which statistics were available) there 28,000 gay male couples with kids in the us.


That seems incredibly low. I know four families, though in one case, one dad was previously married to a woman and the other dad is a stepfather.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2020 17:08     Subject: Re:How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Anonymous wrote:Two dads here living in upper NW with 3 kids. 6 year old, 5 year old and 4 year old.


Op here. We have 3 elementary age kids. Also in nw.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2020 05:56     Subject: Re:How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Two dads here living in upper NW with 3 kids. 6 year old, 5 year old and 4 year old.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2020 21:46     Subject: Re:How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Two dads with 3 year-old twins,. We live in North Bethesda, MD.
Anonymous
Post 10/01/2019 09:36     Subject: How common are gay dad families in dcum?
I used to see gay dad families at the national zoo all the time (when my kid was little).
Anonymous
Post 10/01/2019 08:54     Subject: Re:How common are gay dad families in dcum?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP, I don't think your going to find any place where two Dad families are going to be common. Are you sure you don't mean, how accepted are two Dad families?


Op here. I know that. I was just hoping ithat it might be more than 2-3 people on dcum but apparently not. Incidentally I looked it up. As of the end of 2016 ( most recent year for which statistics were available) there 28,000 gay male couples with kids in the us.


Given that it cost on average around 100k to have a surrogate baby, the low figure is not surprising and why the gay couple with children are almost uniformly wealthy. But I'm sure there's many more blended families with the father coming out later.