Anonymous wrote:I make my own hard seltzer. Just get flavored seltzer water, or plain and you can squeeze in a bit of flavor that is traditionally used for home soda machines, and then add vodka. low calories and lots of variety.
Oh puh-lease! Most ACOAs do not abstain.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t think you’ll find a “safe” alcohol. Save imbibing for special occasions only.
Drunks typically love vodka because they think it’s odorless (can’t smell it on their breath) and since it’s clear and easily disguised as water or mixed with anything.
All alcohol will do some damage over time; it’s very dehydrating and does a number on your skin. Besides the extra calories, alcohol will affect your blood sugar levels, causing high and lows. Red wine stains your teeth.
Alcohol is a depressant. Already a bit blue? Prepare to cry into your beer!
Anyway, here’s to you! Enjoy!
- ACOA, living sober for 20 years by choice
what is an ACOA?
I assume it means Adult Child of Alcoholic. They probably had a traumatic childhood and abstain completely out of fear that they will become their parent.
Yeah, my late brother drank a lot of vodka while he was pretending to abstain from alcohol. I don't think it was because he was worried about calories.Anonymous wrote:I don’t think you’ll find a “safe” alcohol. Save imbibing for special occasions only.
Drunks typically love vodka because they think it’s odorless (can’t smell it on their breath) and since it’s clear and easily disguised as water or mixed with anything.
All alcohol will do some damage over time; it’s very dehydrating and does a number on your skin. Besides the extra calories, alcohol will affect your blood sugar levels, causing high and lows. Red wine stains your teeth.
Alcohol is a depressant. Already a bit blue? Prepare to cry into your beer!
Anyway, here’s to you! Enjoy!
- ACOA, living sober for 20 years by choice
Anonymous wrote:PP/ACOA/Debbie Downer.
I’m deeply sorry for spreading misinformation. Perhaps conflated my parent’s predictable drunk behavior after just one; profound sadness, some crying interspersed with incoherent rambling, silence, shouting then...silence/passing out.
I promise I’m a fun, upbeat and encouraging person IRL.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I do low carb (at least on most days) and my fave drinks are Margharita (made with erythritol/stevia), prosecco and lambrusco.
I would love your Margharita recipe or if it's premixed what brand of mix that is/where you get it.
I do love me some Margharitas!
I use this recipe -https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/food-network-kitchen/margarita-recipe-1928467.amp
I just use erythritol instead of sugar (and less of it), and also less tequila.
When I don't have limes I use lemons and it's very good, too.
Enjoy!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I do low carb (at least on most days) and my fave drinks are Margharita (made with erythritol/stevia), prosecco and lambrusco.
I would love your Margharita recipe or if it's premixed what brand of mix that is/where you get it.
I do love me some Margharitas!

Anonymous wrote:I do low carb (at least on most days) and my fave drinks are Margharita (made with erythritol/stevia), prosecco and lambrusco.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t think you’ll find a “safe” alcohol. Save imbibing for special occasions only.
Drunks typically love vodka because they think it’s odorless (can’t smell it on their breath) and since it’s clear and easily disguised as water or mixed with anything.
All alcohol will do some damage over time; it’s very dehydrating and does a number on your skin. Besides the extra calories, alcohol will affect your blood sugar levels, causing high and lows. Red wine stains your teeth.
Alcohol is a depressant. Already a bit blue? Prepare to cry into your beer!
Anyway, here’s to you! Enjoy!
- ACOA, living sober for 20 years by choice
Please stop propagating this notion that alcohol is a depressant = alcohol makes you sad.
Sure, some people are sad weepy drunks, and alcohol abuse/addiction is often comorbid with mental health issues like depression. That’s not what it means for alcohol to be a depressant.
It’s a central nervous system depressant which means it slows down some functions of the brain which causes the slurred speech, etc. Benzos like Xanax and sedative-hypnotics like ambien are also depressants. Depressants are in contrast to stimulants like caffeine which increase CNS functions.
Anonymous wrote:I don’t think you’ll find a “safe” alcohol. Save imbibing for special occasions only.
Drunks typically love vodka because they think it’s odorless (can’t smell it on their breath) and since it’s clear and easily disguised as water or mixed with anything.
All alcohol will do some damage over time; it’s very dehydrating and does a number on your skin. Besides the extra calories, alcohol will affect your blood sugar levels, causing high and lows. Red wine stains your teeth.
Alcohol is a depressant. Already a bit blue? Prepare to cry into your beer!
Anyway, here’s to you! Enjoy!
- ACOA, living sober for 20 years by choice