Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's doing The 180 on you. It's obviously working and getting under your skin.

He is treating as just me being hysterical (which I wasn't at the time I told him what I wanted) which just pisses me off even further. I feel like I'm just pissing in the wind with him. Nothing I say is taken seriously.

What do you want? What exactly is the problem in your marriage? That he treats you as a petulant child? Ok, to that, but what is the real problem. What wishes of yours does he ignore?

What is the issue in your marriage? Did he cheat or beat or is an alcoholic? If none of the mentioned, why are you separating?

OP you sound a little bit immature. If you are serious about things being over then you would move out. In my opinion one bad year is not enough to end a marriage over barring some extreme circumstances (arguing a lot is not enough). Maybe your husband is right and a part of the problem is that you need to lighten up. This is a problem I had. After realizing this my marriage has gotten sooooo much better.

If you want the divorce then it's on you to move out.

Anonymous wrote:Ugh!
Such a typical man behavior.

In order for him to see how serious you truly are, you need to remain consistent & stick by your word.

Because right now, he is using a manipulative power play on you.

Why does she get to force him to move out? It’s his home too. She hasn’t said why she’s refusing to do so.

Anonymous wrote:Ugh!
Such a typical man behavior.

In order for him to see how serious you truly are, you need to remain consistent & stick by your word.

Because right now, he is using a manipulative power play on you.

She can move out at anytime.

Ugh!
Such a typical man behavior.

In order for him to see how serious you truly are, you need to remain consistent & stick by your word.

Because right now, he is using a manipulative power play on you.

This is called a “hoover.” It’s a manipulations tactic.

You can move to the guest room and file for divorce.

Why don’t you do that?

You need a plan to work through the various reasons, you are not the one packing up. Form a plan for you to be the one who leaves. Get in control of your life.

Is he a genie? How is he going to grant your wish? You're relationship has deteriorated to this point and you're surprised he's ignoring you? He's ignoring you bc your'e and over the top drama queen and are constantly nagging and suffer from chronic melodramatic outbursts. I'm just guessing.

His attitude says it all. He is satisfied with the status quo. If you want the separation on the way to divorce, you do something about it and you move out. You don't get to make him leave if he doesn't want to leave.

Your various reasons are not important for him. They are just excuses. So, you either move out or live with the status quo until you are ready to move out. If he wants to break up the marriage, he can leave, but it sounds like you have unilaterally decided he should move out and that is worth as much as the anonymous forum it is written on.

this is the same crazy lady that posts everyday about her DH?

Happiness comes from within.

Why does HE have to be the one to leave HIS home?

You want out, Op, you leave.