Anonymous wrote:Is the pool at your house? If so, why haven't you taken all the necessary precautions to keep child from going to pool by herself? I had a pool and we had alarms for ALL doors as well as an alarm for pool. These are simple, easy to obtain and install. You are even more at fault than the nanny!
The OP has a child in the hospital with a serious injury. You speculate 1) that a pool was involved; 2) that the pool was a backyard pool that was not sufficiently protected and that 3) the OP is more at fault than the nanny. You have none of that information, but you choose to assume the worst- based really on nothing, and pile guilt on a mom who is probably already feeling incredibly neglectful and awful in her hiring choices. You are really an awful person.