I'm a DW in the same boat! I got to know someone a little bit outside my normal circle, and eventually it crossed over to FWB. It is tricky, but possible. It was nice because I first got to know and trust him, although now we are purely physical. I see him fairly infrequently, but the sex is amazing, and it keeps me sane! Just take care with your appearance, and look around, there are a lot of guys who would be up for this.

Anonymous wrote:Im like OP and feel like a dog in heat. Do men feel like this all the time? I feel sorry for them. The feeling of just needing a good lay wont dissipate and I'm worried about lowering my standards. But I have a one track mind. Self pleasure doesnt help for long.

Yes ^^^

Im like OP and feel like a dog in heat. Do men feel like this all the time? I feel sorry for them. The feeling of just needing a good lay wont dissipate and I'm worried about lowering my standards. But I have a one track mind. Self pleasure doesnt help for long.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you put the effort into your marriage and try to get the spark back? No plans to divorce must mean its worth fighting for?

No. It just means we are financially tied together in ways too difficult to untangle without damaging our kids.

I’ve been to therapy. I’ve tried getting his attention. I’ve tried pretty much everything. I haven’t had sex in 7 years. And I don’t remember the last time I had good sex.

Seriously start breaking apart. This isn't healthy at all, especially for your kids. Especially if you're considering risky behavior.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you put the effort into your marriage and try to get the spark back? No plans to divorce must mean its worth fighting for?

No. It just means we are financially tied together in ways too difficult to untangle without damaging our kids.

I’ve been to therapy. I’ve tried getting his attention. I’ve tried pretty much everything. I haven’t had sex in 7 years. And I don’t remember the last time I had good sex.

in all honestly, and no insult intended, are you attractive/fit? besides a general statement of looking for [basically] a 40-something FWB, what type of guy do you want?

I am a male in the same boat ... Can we meet at a starbucks ?

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you put the effort into your marriage and try to get the spark back? No plans to divorce must mean its worth fighting for?

No. It just means we are financially tied together in ways too difficult to untangle without damaging our kids.

I’ve been to therapy. I’ve tried getting his attention. I’ve tried pretty much everything. I haven’t had sex in 7 years. And I don’t remember the last time I had good sex.

in all honestly, and no insult intended, are you attractive/fit? besides a general statement of looking for [basically] a 40-something FWB, what type of guy do you want?

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you put the effort into your marriage and try to get the spark back? No plans to divorce must mean its worth fighting for?

No. It just means we are financially tied together in ways too difficult to untangle without damaging our kids.

I’ve been to therapy. I’ve tried getting his attention. I’ve tried pretty much everything. I haven’t had sex in 7 years. And I don’t remember the last time I had good sex.

Why don't you put the effort into your marriage and try to get the spark back? No plans to divorce must mean its worth fighting for?

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Anonymous wrote:Just get a vibrator or two and take care of business. No herpes, HPV or HIV or risk of ruining your reputation.

This is the most annoying advice ever. There is so much more to sex than the orgasm.

Not with strangers off the street. PP was nicely trying to steer her away from dangerous behavior with strangers. Poor judgement is poor judgement. Look at that poor college girl who was turning tricks to pay for college expenses. Doesn't OP watch the news?

DM me

Anonymous wrote:Just get a vibrator or two and take care of business. No herpes, HPV or HIV or risk of ruining your reputation.

This is the most annoying advice ever. There is so much more to sex than the orgasm.

Just get a vibrator or two and take care of business. No herpes, HPV or HIV or risk of ruining your reputation.

Dating app silly.

What if you accidentally hook up with a psycho serial killer? I’d be more worried about that.

You're a woman? Stand up and look left then right. See any attractive men? 90% of them would have sex with you. Married men especially (because you KNOW they get little at home). Just approach, say Hi, lean in, make it clear you are "interested".