Oh, and ass.

Tits.

Husband here. I love the female form and think that women are beautiful. I especially enjoy seeing older women closer to my age who are in great shape. Maybe I just respect how hard it is to stay in shape as we get older.

That said, I’ve got zero interest in being with anyone but my wife.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bipolar disorder
alcoholism
borderline personality disorder
depression and anxiety
drug addiction
entitlement

to name a few

From a guy’s standpoint, it’s non of these. You women are so clueless.

Or dead inside.

I'm a woman and married, but not dead. I could not keep my eyes off this fine specimen of a man in a meeting the other day. I could not stop thinking of all the nasty things I would do to him if I had a chance.

Yes, I love my DH and am loyal.

You have no idea what goes on in other relationships. How do you know he truly is loving and loyal?

Whatever he is, he surely isn’t respectful

Anonymous wrote:Confront him. Tell him how it makes you feel and to stop.

New to the thread but I did this and it helped a lot but not completely and I had to tell him several times! It didn’t just make me feel awful (which he says he wasn’t trying to do) but it made him look like a nasty man. I know how uncomfortable it is to be leered at especially by a man with his partner. It’s just gross and no not every man does it, it can also be curbed if addressed seriously. I’m sure he stopped being so starey mostly for me but he also probably didn’t want to look like the creep I pointed out he was being.

Anonymous wrote:Bipolar disorder
alcoholism
borderline personality disorder
depression and anxiety
drug addiction
entitlement

to name a few

Don't forger ADHD and Autism. Those are the group favorites.

Anonymous wrote:I’ve seen this happen before. If he’s such a great husband with a loving wife, what makes him stare at other women?

Thoughts?

Uh, because has a penis?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bipolar disorder
alcoholism
borderline personality disorder
depression and anxiety
drug addiction
entitlement

to name a few

From a guy’s standpoint, it’s non of these. You women are so clueless.

No matter who you are, if you stare or leer at someone you have major problems.

LOL. You think your DH doesn’t look? Oh, maybe you are single or not into men.

Confront him. Tell him how it makes you feel and to stop.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bipolar disorder
alcoholism
borderline personality disorder
depression and anxiety
drug addiction
entitlement

to name a few

From a guy’s standpoint, it’s non of these. You women are so clueless.

No matter who you are, if you stare or leer at someone you have major problems.

I know my husband looks but he doesn’t ever say anything. And, he often compliments me on how I look. Just this morning he said how great I looked last night when we had dinner with friends so I know he’s looking at me! If he had said it last night he might have gotten lucky!

Sometimes other women are hot. I like the art in my house, but when I see art in public, I appreciate it. Doesn't make me love what I have at home any less.

Anonymous wrote:He can look, but he can’t touch or make some stupid comment. I look at good looking men so why can’t he look at good looking women. I’m the one he jumps into bed with so I’m happy.

Nothing more needs to be said! Amen sister!

See other threads about leering vs looking.