Anonymous
Post 06/30/2019 15:17     Subject: Guy won’t take a hint. Do I have to be rude?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I thanked him for meeting up, and told him I wasn’t interested and wish him the best in finding a good match. Then blocked - I have no need or interest in maintaining an open channel of communication.

Thanks for the feedback re: being direct. Will do this in the future should the situation call for it. I would hate to be ghosted so refuse to do that to others.


So why didn't you just do this to begin with?


I thought he would take my disinterest as disinterest. Now I know better. Thanks!
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2019 15:15     Subject: Guy won’t take a hint. Do I have to be rude?
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I thanked him for meeting up, and told him I wasn’t interested and wish him the best in finding a good match. Then blocked - I have no need or interest in maintaining an open channel of communication.

Thanks for the feedback re: being direct. Will do this in the future should the situation call for it. I would hate to be ghosted so refuse to do that to others.


So why didn't you just do this to begin with?
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2019 15:10     Subject: Guy won’t take a hint. Do I have to be rude?
Anonymous wrote:Tel him you NOW are in a committed relationship with someone else. But you will not discuss.


This is bad advice because it leaves a door open for the other person to think that if you weren't in a relationship you'd be interested. Better just to say not interested.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2019 15:01     Subject: Guy won’t take a hint. Do I have to be rude?
Tel him you NOW are in a committed relationship with someone else. But you will not discuss.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2019 14:59     Subject: Guy won’t take a hint. Do I have to be rude?
OP here. I thanked him for meeting up, and told him I wasn’t interested and wish him the best in finding a good match. Then blocked - I have no need or interest in maintaining an open channel of communication.

Thanks for the feedback re: being direct. Will do this in the future should the situation call for it. I would hate to be ghosted so refuse to do that to others.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2019 14:59     Subject: Guy won’t take a hint. Do I have to be rude?
Is this your first date ever OP? You’re sure acting like it is.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2019 14:56     Subject: Guy won’t take a hint. Do I have to be rude?
Just ghost. He has been ghosted before, he will be again.