Anonymous wrote:I would never date anyone with a baby mama, but yes, sounds like they are dating.

+1

Anonymous wrote:Baby mama is such a trashy term.

As is baby daddy.
Who are these people?
Multiple baby mamas. Multiple baby daddies. Get your act together people!
I weep for these children and our future.

She's making her moves and he is interested. What man wants to go shopping for clothes especially female clothes. If he is agreeing to this then it sounds like he is interested.

This is going to get messy.

Baby mama is such a trashy term.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not totally clear to me from the OP but if it's shopping for clothes for the shared child not a big deal. If it's shopping for clothes for the baby mama then yeah it's weird.

OP here, she wants blouses/shirts for herself, NOT for the child.

To be very clear here, it doesn't sound like he's cheating on you with her. It sounds like he's cheating on her with you.

This. Sorry, OP. No man cares what his ex wears unless she dresses extra slutty or he still has feelings.

I used to jokingly call my ex-husband my baby daddy after we had our first pregnancy.
Speak it and it shall be so.
Now I need to go find the song.

OP, please stop using terms like "baby mama" and "baby daddy", if for no other reason than it's not respectful for the kids involved here. Families come in all shapes and sizes but we don't need to use pejorative terms for the various parents, and yes it is considered pejorative.