I was born with or raised to have an unusually high level of empathy. I am painfully aware of the noise I make. I can't imagime just being able to live life not aware of that.

It's something about hearing humans eat. My parents farmed. I found the sound of cattle eating their hay or sileage peaceful, but hearing my mom eat made me want to strangle her.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's too hot for soup
I hope he has some ranch there
Or else he will die

-Flip Driscoll

Don’t joke about it
Food noses are disgusting
Please go away now

-Pilf Crisdoll

Begone you faux flip!
Without ranch you aren’t even
Close to Flip Driscoll.

I’ll say what I wish!
So take your ranch and be gone.
It’s gross anyway.

-Pilf Crisdoll

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:in some cultures it is consider a sign of delight and high culture. If you are NOT slurping as you eat soup you are not only offending the cook but you are coming across as a rude person. Seriously.

It is rude. I don't want to hear you slurp your food. Just stop it.

Broaden your mind a little. Not every culture has the same conception of “manners.”

In Japan, slurping soup is actually considered a respectable thing.

Perhaps you live there.....??!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's too hot for soup
I hope he has some ranch there
Or else he will die

-Flip Driscoll

Don’t joke about it
Food noses are disgusting
Please go away now

-Pilf Crisdoll

Begone you faux flip!
Without ranch you aren’t even
Close to Flip Driscoll.

Anonymous wrote:It's too hot for soup
I hope he has some ranch there
Or else he will die

-Flip Driscoll

Don’t joke about it
Food noses are disgusting
Please go away now

-Pilf Crisdoll

Anonymous wrote:

Loud slurping may be rude in the U.S., but in Japan it is considered rude not to slurp.

https://foodandnutrition.org/blogs/stone-soup/polite-eating-japanese-restaurant/

So he should go to Japan to eat?

My mom used to call me out for making loud noises when I drink. I felt deeply ashamed. As an adult, a dentist looked in my mouth and asked if I made a lot of noise when I swallow. I said yes in shock. He said I had a common harmless deformity of the palate and showed me how to reduce the noise. It’s a weird method of drinking though and I never use it.

Loud slurping may be rude in the U.S., but in Japan it is considered rude not to slurp.

https://foodandnutrition.org/blogs/stone-soup/polite-eating-japanese-restaurant/

OP here.

Growing up, dh was taught to eat as quickly as possible. No conversation at the table. Eat fast, eat a lot, and get away from the table.

He does not engage in conversation. He rarely answers a question orcresponds to a comment.

I don't know why he was eating so loudly today.

It's too hot for soup
I hope he has some ranch there
Or else he will die

-Flip Driscoll

Anonymous wrote:in some cultures it is consider a sign of delight and high culture. If you are NOT slurping as you eat soup you are not only offending the cook but you are coming across as a rude person. Seriously.

It is rude. I don't want to hear you slurp your food. Just stop it.

in some cultures it is consider a sign of delight and high culture. If you are NOT slurping as you eat soup you are not only offending the cook but you are coming across as a rude person. Seriously.

Anonymous wrote:Your misophonia is real. My husband has this and he’s equally annoying when he eats. Be sure you’re quiet as a mouse before you start with that crap, OP.

This. My dh sounds like a cow crunching on nuts but complains about me. I plan to record his smacking and play it back for him. He is so sensitive to noise and doesn't realize he makes the same amount of noise I do.

Guarantee if I played a recording of himself he would come into the room and ask me to eat quieter. Plan to try it now!