Anonymous wrote:OP are you an Incel?

You make no sense.

OP are you an Incel?

I would tell him. He deserves to know there are 3 people in his marriage.

Ain’t your call to act as some sort of avenging angel. Stay out of it, don’t be a horrible person yourself.

Anonymous wrote:Geezus find your integrity girl! Not your place to blow up her kids world. She may be a b, but you are too.

+1

Is your life so unfulfilling that you need to meddle in other people's lives to feel better about yourself? Try working on your own life more and focusing on others less. You'll probably be surprised about how much better you feel.

If I were the neighbor I would want to know. I would also rather not know who told me because things automatically become awkward

If you were to out her and he decided to kill her would you feel guilty?

Stay out of it. None of your business. Mind your own.

I hate people who cheat on their spouses (even more so when children are in the picture) ans she deserves any malice and misfortune that comes her way. I hope her husband finds out.

Anonymous wrote:Stay out of it.

I heard it from my best friend. That was hard enough. A neighbor who really only wants to stick it to someone she doesn't like? No.

You would preferred to have not known? Even though friends and neighbors know?

I always find this perspective interesting as I can't fathom not wanting to know - especially when all the people around me know.

Stay out of it.

I heard it from my best friend. That was hard enough. A neighbor who really only wants to stick it to someone she doesn't like? No.

^^^

Exactly. How do you know? Are you watching her driveway? Peeking thru her windows?

How do you even know she is having an affair? Got any proof?

Sorry, reverse that

I would tell him. He deserves to know there are 3 people in his marriage. And it puts his health at risk

I would just be factual. This is a neighbour. Why does it matter if she knows it was you. Don't tell him she is having an affair, tell him what you have seen and heard with no assumption as to what it means. He can do as he wishes with that objective information. If he knows or they have an open marriage then he will so nothing with it.

It is the affair blowing up the marriage, not the husband being made aware that he is being cheated on.

Interesting that when it is the wife being cheating on most respond that she deserves to know the truth. Should be told so she can get tested for STDs.