Anonymous wrote:I have three boys and people say they’re sorry for me all the time. People are jerks...I’m really happy with my boys.
Anonymous wrote:OP here, thank you all! My pregnancy hormones are raging lately. I think that's why I'm so annoyed.
Anonymous wrote: I think it’s just small talk as well. I usually get “well, you have one of each so you don’t need a third”.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant with my 2nd. Another girl. I've been asked a bunch of times if I'm going to try for a 3rd to have a boy or if I wanted another girl. I really don't care what the sex is, I just want a healthy baby. Very annoying. Vent over!
I think a lot of the signaling subconsciously comes from you. Just act thrilled that you are having another girl and no one will ask this! I had two girls (and wanted two girls) and I don't think anyone ever asked me if I was going to try for a boy, and if they did, it didn't bother me. In fact, if I had a third, I'd sincerely hope SHE was a girl too.
Anonymous wrote:I’m not having another kid just to “give DD A sibling”. She’ll get a fish, then a puppy when the times are right.
Oh an no, DH doesn’t feel sad that she’s a girl. Admittedly, he wasn’t sure what to do with her at first. But now, he has his second hand zombie hunter and dance partner all in one adorable package. I’ve been replaced and couldn’t be more enchanted by my little “AP”.