Pizza if at lunch or dinner time. For a 2pm party, it's the afternoon snack hour: fruit, pretzels, cheese, or veggies, then cake.

Anonymous wrote:Would it be weird to serve pizza and cake at this time, or should I just stick with cake?

Some snack platters (fruit, veggies with dip, maybe pretzels) would be fine. Let the kids snack if they want. Pizza at 3 would be fine but let the parents know in advance, I would count on making a smaller dinner for my kid if he had pizza at 3. But snacks before cake would work fine as well.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the preschooler is 3 they may have naps then. Not so if they're 5. Just saying.

To answer your question, I prefer cake. It's not a meal time.

Who refers to a five year old as a preschooler?

A lot of people refer to their kids based on their grades. Pre School tends to be 4-5, older then Day Care but not in Elementary School.