Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guys just want to talk and talk and I have difficulty gauging their interest.

Same with some women. I push for a meeting pretty quickly. I don't mind all kinds of talk or texting leading to that meeting, but their has to be a meeting and soon. I'm not into pen pals, attention whores, or being someone's 3rd or 4th string.

Pushing for a meeting and asking for a date are two different things in my mind. If guys asks me what are my plans for a weekend, I will honestly tell him all the laundry list I have to do on a weekend. If guy asks me for a date/ meet up, I will shuffle everything around and will find time to meet with him.

Anonymous wrote:Guys just want to talk and talk and I have difficulty gauging their interest.

Same with some women. I push for a meeting pretty quickly. I don't mind all kinds of talk or texting leading to that meeting, but their has to be a meeting and soon. I'm not into pen pals, attention whores, or being someone's 3rd or 4th string.

There spouses aren't interested anymore in the conversation, so they seek it elsewhere.