Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 12:23     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:I decided to text him and he hasn't responded so ai have my answer


Does his name start with an A and end with an L? If so, he did the same thing to me. LOL
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 12:02     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I decided to text him and he hasn't responded so ai have my answer


Damn, what a loser. Next.


Wow I’m sorry. What a douche. Oh well at least you haven’t invested much and can work on finding someone who deserves you. But I don’t think in general following up for details is desperate or that it means a guy isn’t interested.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 11:59     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:I decided to text him and he hasn't responded so ai have my answer


Damn, what a loser. Next.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 11:58     Subject: Re:He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why don't you ask?



Because I don't want to seem desperate.


You seem like you are 12


Exactly. Only the desperate are worried about being seen as desperate.

And dont text people. Call them. Texting in courtship is weak bull&#it. A male opinion here.


Welcome to millennial dating world... everything is by text nowadays.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 11:57     Subject: Re:He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would make plans with girlfriends, not another guy.

I also wouldn’t text and ask for a time. Of course I would do that with my husband or a girlfriend, but not with a man who just asked me on a first date.


Agreed!!!


I decided to text. He didn't respond. Going out with friends instead. I think in the future I will use your approach. If a guy wants my time he can ask for it properly.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 11:46     Subject: Re:He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:I would make plans with girlfriends, not another guy.

I also wouldn’t text and ask for a time. Of course I would do that with my husband or a girlfriend, but not with a man who just asked me on a first date.


Agreed!!!
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 11:42     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
I decided to text him and he hasn't responded so ai have my answer
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 11:03     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
ugh annoying

if you feel confident and willing, message him and just say - hey, did you still want to get together tonight?

if you feel like this guy is proving himself not to be as reliable and with-it as you'd want from a partner, just don't message him and take this as the sign that this isn't the guy for you
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 11:01     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Looking forward to tonight! What time do you want to meet?"

PS I agree men do suck at this. My husband does.


This entirely. My partner has a clear idea of time, but often forgets to tell me. It’s ok to ask.


It’s different if it’s your husband or long term partner. Assuming that men have the best of intentions, but are just inept, is how women get themselves into trouble.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 10:57     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:"Looking forward to tonight! What time do you want to meet?"

PS I agree men do suck at this. My husband does.


Same, although he's fabulous about birthdays and anniversaries.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 10:53     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:"Looking forward to tonight! What time do you want to meet?"

PS I agree men do suck at this. My husband does.


This entirely. My partner has a clear idea of time, but often forgets to tell me. It’s ok to ask.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 10:48     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Tell us about the other guy
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 10:31     Subject: Re:He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
I would make plans with girlfriends, not another guy.

I also wouldn’t text and ask for a time. Of course I would do that with my husband or a girlfriend, but not with a man who just asked me on a first date.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 10:08     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
Anonymous wrote:“Did we ever set a time for tonight?”


Too passive-aggressive for my taste.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2019 09:48     Subject: He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?
"Looking forward to tonight! What time do you want to meet?"

PS I agree men do suck at this. My husband does.