Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Get a hearing aid. I did, at 47. Plus kids are hard to hear anyway when in front of you, well for me. It is not cheap but I got a hearing aid as I promised myself I will not be one of those stubborn people who refuse to get it as they lose their hearing, that is my grandma, now my mom, my FIL, my aunt.... The thing is people act like you are an idiot when you have hearing impairment. Yet, nobody is telling a blind person to just walk down the darn stairs, are they? What I found is that no matter how many times you tell even your spouse and kids and even you own mother that can't hear not to tell you thinks when you are upstairs and they are downstairs, people still do it! And then it is still your fault. Sadly, the only option was for me to get a hearing aid, as I realized people will continue to be ignorant when it comes to hearing impediment. It is like I became an idiot!
I am totally deaf in one ear. If people are talking from that direction, usually I can't hear them at all. My experience is people think I'm being a jerk and ignoring them - a deliberate snub! - when I simply never heard them at all.
A hearing aid doesn't really help with this, unfortunately, because it only works in the good ear, and I'm still deaf on the other side.