Anonymous wrote:Op people do tend to put down roots where they went to college. Not everyone of course. College is a way to get started in another area of the country.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe if you are talking about grad school. Not college. It's a lot for a 17-18 year old to know where they might want to end up and choose a college accordingly. You're still pretty young to have a good idea.
I had a good idea 30+ years ago and I am still here!
And it sucks![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For DS, who likes JMU and VA Tech, that means I'd say he should pick VA Tech since, IME, more people on the West coast have heard of that while nobody knows JMU.
Nobody out West knows about VA Tech, either. Choose Tech over JMU because it is a better school not because more people far away have supposedly heard of it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No. She should go somewhere new if you can afford it.
Keeping kids close is just an odd way for parents who are too attached to keep control over their kids.
Teachers/nurses can work anywhere... let her explore for her 20's.
OP again. I'm not sure you read my post carefully. I'm not trying to keep control over her. I am encouraging her to apply out of state because we don't like where we live (and DH and I will be out of here in about 6 years anyway). It's more of a question of where should she look - does it make sense to go to school in a particular state, even if she doesn't want to end up in that state after graduation, specifically if she decides she wants to go to school for teaching? Obviously, if she were going to law school, it doesn't matter the state for undergrad.
Anonymous wrote:For DS, who likes JMU and VA Tech, that means I'd say he should pick VA Tech since, IME, more people on the West coast have heard of that while nobody knows JMU.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe if you are talking about grad school. Not college. It's a lot for a 17-18 year old to know where they might want to end up and choose a college accordingly. You're still pretty young to have a good idea.
I had a good idea 30+ years ago and I am still here!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe if you are talking about grad school. Not college. It's a lot for a 17-18 year old to know where they might want to end up and choose a college accordingly. You're still pretty young to have a good idea.
I had a good idea 30+ years ago and I am still here!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. She will most likely not go to grad school. She is an average student and will most likely to go just undergrad. We don't live in DC any longer - moved out of state 5 years ago for a job and don't like it here, so she doesn't reallly want to stay in state, and I am fine with that.
At first she thought she wanted to go to school in Florida and teaching is one career possibility, but when I thought about it, it doesn't make sense to go to Florida for a teaching degree unless you want to stay in Florida. I doubt she knows where she wants to live after college.
We were also thinking of schools in the mid-atlantic (from PA to VA) because that's where we're from but I looked at Towson's website, and of course, if you go there, they prepare you for the Maryland teaching requirements. That's what made me post the questions.
Thanks for the responses so far.
For teaching, yes - you should probably think about wanting to maybe work there. Just because you will intern in some schools in the area. That said, Florida pays their teachers terribly and they have a massive shortage. I would reconsider. Truly looking into cost of living vs wages earned.