Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DD does this too. Erases voice memos or video or pictures I take of her when she’s bitchy. I take them because so want her to see how she comes across and to show her therapist. She always manages to erase them.

Good for her. I think you need to discuss whether this is an appropriate practice with your therapist.

+1

In general, reading someone's emails is not something to do, but if I were living under East German Style Surveillance, I might do the same.

Sounds like the rage she is showing at therapy might be appropriate.

Anonymous wrote:My DD does this too. Erases voice memos or video or pictures I take of her when she’s bitchy. I take them because so want her to see how she comes across and to show her therapist. She always manages to erase them.

Good for her. I think you need to discuss whether this is an appropriate practice with your therapist.

Maybe she was looking for something specific like a birthday invitation or a sports schedule? I search under my kids' names obviously when I'm trying to find some planning email.

My DD does this too. Erases voice memos or video or pictures I take of her when she’s bitchy. I take them because so want her to see how she comes across and to show her therapist. She always manages to erase them.

Anonymous wrote:To find out if I’m talking about her. Or at least that’s what it looks like (I can see the search history for my mailbox and there are multiple searches for her name.)

Umm?

Password protect and lock it yourself before you leave it anywhere.