Anonymous wrote:We were lucky to have our daughter quality as a TJ semifinalist this year. Unfortunately, we missed the teacher name entry deadline last Friday (name entry, not the final recommendation text) for TJHSST. The admission director said we have to pull out from the application and cannot continue. I was searching for an appeal process but most links lead nowhere.
In our household, I was responsible for TJ date tracking. I completely missed the Jan 25th date in the congratulatory email, and was surprised when we checked Sunday evening. All along we thought she could talk to her teachers this week. She already had two teachers in mind last week, but we were oblivious to the Friday deadline, else we could have done the name entry that day. Between a couple of school tests last week, my daughter was preparing for the essays on the 9th.
We now have to withdraw from the process. It is heartbreaking --and I will feel guilty forever-- to deny her a chance to test for a TJ spot because of a missed name entry (because I missed a sentence while overjoyed reading the email; I remember thinking, ok, the next date we have to know is the 9th). But the official response was a very dry you can't continue.
Is anyone familiar with an appeal? The appeal is not on the selection, just to be allowed to continue to the essay exam. Her teachers already agreed to write a recommendation.
Appreciate any tips. Thank you.
(This is probably a unique case so it would be easy to identify me, but will try to be anon.)
Anonymous wrote:
I posted above about how my child's guidance counsler reminded them to do this, TWICE. I personally could have easily forgotten as well and anyone suggesting an eighth grader isn't cut out for TJ due to this oversight is downright obnoxious and off base. No reminder emails were sent, in what day in age does this not happen?. If they are going to be so strict about this artificial deadline, then they really have no excuse not to send out a clear reminder email.
Have you talked to your child's guidance counselor? Maybe they can help advocate on your child's behalf.
Anonymous wrote:Thank you for this. Helps relieve the guilt. I can laugh at it now a little bit (I'm the OP). But I truly get your point.
I was kicking myself for not reading the email with the 25th. I should not have missed it, but I did. Funnily enough, I did *not* miss the line about the Feb 11th actual recommendation deadline. The truth is, her teachers said they are ready to write the recommendation right away if needed to help her get through this obstacle.
Last week, my daughter and I were talking about teachers she had in mind on Thursday PM, and then again on Friday. It would have been all too easy for her to enter the name by the deadline, but we just did not know. She did not read the congratulatory email. I opened it first and she did not read the whole thing. She was happy to hear me say she got in and went to her phone to text friends I guess, so all my fault really.
Others here say she'll be eaten alive. I am not too sure.For sure she would struggle mightily (everyone does), but she is quite capable (in my view, parent glasses). She is on Geometry, which she said is second year high school math, and on talented (don't want to say gifted because I consider that category something else) classification on all subjects in the APS classification system. That's something, even if not enough for TJ survival.
As you noted about colleges, I am also very familiar with the deadlines of elite graduate schools, and their flexibility within reason. I have been granted at least one waiver (Georgia Tech on TOEFL), and MIT on being late with a visa paper (they called me to ask if they could help as I did not have enough assets to show in a bank statement; they also waived a few other application documents).
TJs policy is as everyone says here, so my daughter and I can deal with that. I don't believe their being strict is about being a great, sough after school, just that it is their policy. That said, being an elite school provides the blanket to be more strict with rejections. They can always find someone of equal or higher quality.![]()
I would be interested in forming a group, but that makes only two.Your points are great suggestions, it must be said.
Her MS gets a few each year, and I am happy to encourage their team to send reminder emails next year.
For sure she would struggle mightily (everyone does), but she is quite capable (in my view, parent glasses). She is on Geometry, which she said is second year high school math, and on talented (don't want to say gifted because I consider that category something else) classification on all subjects in the APS classification system. That's something, even if not enough for TJ survival.
Your points are great suggestions, it must be said.
Anonymous wrote:Our child’s counselor reminded them twice to do it. I would give some constructive feeedback to your schools guidance counslers. This is really unfortunate.