Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds to me maybe you are upset her grades are not better when they are excellent. What supports are you looking for? More than likely if she is doing well, you will get no help in less you doctor shop to find someone to tweak the scores to get what you need/want.
OP here. No, not upset by her grades at all. She's generally a good student. Just concerned that, while she has good organizational skills and is keeping up with schoolwork, the rigors of junior and senior-year coursework may be too much for her. The only support I can think of is extra time on tests.
You make me sick. Your child has no academic problems and you are just gaming the system. Some of our kids have actual special needs and you are doing us all a disservice by giving true SN parents a bad name.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds to me maybe you are upset her grades are not better when they are excellent. What supports are you looking for? More than likely if she is doing well, you will get no help in less you doctor shop to find someone to tweak the scores to get what you need/want.
OP here. No, not upset by her grades at all. She's generally a good student. Just concerned that, while she has good organizational skills and is keeping up with schoolwork, the rigors of junior and senior-year coursework may be too much for her. The only support I can think of is extra time on tests.
Anonymous wrote:My DD was diagnosed as having ADHD (combined type) in elementary school. She was diagnosed by a psychiatrist and the initial diagnosis was confirmed by a psychologist who completed the whole psychoeducational testing process (6 hours of testing for DD, parent and teacher input, etc.). We tried medication for a while but it made her feel "out of it" so we stopped it. We had a 504 hearing in elementary (sorry if I'm using the wrong term--I don't remember the term exactly) and were denied any formal accomodations because they said she was doing well academically and didnt qualify. I didn't push back at the time.
DD went on to do well in ES, MS, and has a 3.6 average in highschool (10th grade). She is very organized so executive functioning is not an issue for us. We hadn't given the whole thing much thought until we started thinking ahead to junior year and beyond when the coursework will undoubtedly get harder. Is it worth revisiting the issue in HS to figure out what, if any, extra support she needs? Although she's organized and usually gets her work done on time, she still says she's bored out of her mind at school (no, I'm not suggesting she's gifted), takes much longer to do homework than others her age and, according to her, hates to read and wants to avoid any class that involves reading anything longer than a few paragraphs. These things sound to me like there are still some ADHD symptoms at play. And I say this as someone who has struggled with ADD all my life.
Those of you who have been down this road, has it been worth it to revisit an ADHD diagnosis in HS? Did it make a difference in your child's ability to get through high school? I know many of you on this board have much bigger problems but I would appreciate hearing from anyone with a siimilar experience.
Anonymous wrote:Not the OP, but just curious...when you get the Neuropsych done again, is it better to go to a new provider or stay with the original tester?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds to me maybe you are upset her grades are not better when they are excellent. What supports are you looking for? More than likely if she is doing well, you will get no help in less you doctor shop to find someone to tweak the scores to get what you need/want.
OP here. No, not upset by her grades at all. She's generally a good student. Just concerned that, while she has good organizational skills and is keeping up with schoolwork, the rigors of junior and senior-year coursework may be too much for her. The only support I can think of is extra time on tests.
Both of my children had IEPs. Both needed the extra time on standardized testing for college and for exams in college. Writing papers was difficult for one child with HFA so extra time or tutoring was needed in college on papers. We tested every three years (usually not in one sitting - spread out over two or three days). About $3K. Our insurance never covered it. Good luck.
My child had an IEP and it was worthless. School didn't follow their own recommendations and therapies were based off other kids needs in the group, not my child. None of it was even related to the curriculum. It really depends on the school and teachers. My child could benefit from a little support but school was clear they weren't going to do anything so we just dropped the IEP and child still has the same grades.
You have to be assertive. If your child is not getting the guaranteed accommodations in the IEP, you need to call the county compliance officer. I had to do that twice with FCPS.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds to me maybe you are upset her grades are not better when they are excellent. What supports are you looking for? More than likely if she is doing well, you will get no help in less you doctor shop to find someone to tweak the scores to get what you need/want.
OP here. No, not upset by her grades at all. She's generally a good student. Just concerned that, while she has good organizational skills and is keeping up with schoolwork, the rigors of junior and senior-year coursework may be too much for her. The only support I can think of is extra time on tests.
Both of my children had IEPs. Both needed the extra time on standardized testing for college and for exams in college. Writing papers was difficult for one child with HFA so extra time or tutoring was needed in college on papers. We tested every three years (usually not in one sitting - spread out over two or three days). About $3K. Our insurance never covered it. Good luck.
My child had an IEP and it was worthless. School didn't follow their own recommendations and therapies were based off other kids needs in the group, not my child. None of it was even related to the curriculum. It really depends on the school and teachers. My child could benefit from a little support but school was clear they weren't going to do anything so we just dropped the IEP and child still has the same grades.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds to me maybe you are upset her grades are not better when they are excellent. What supports are you looking for? More than likely if she is doing well, you will get no help in less you doctor shop to find someone to tweak the scores to get what you need/want.
OP here. No, not upset by her grades at all. She's generally a good student. Just concerned that, while she has good organizational skills and is keeping up with schoolwork, the rigors of junior and senior-year coursework may be too much for her. The only support I can think of is extra time on tests.
Both of my children had IEPs. Both needed the extra time on standardized testing for college and for exams in college. Writing papers was difficult for one child with HFA so extra time or tutoring was needed in college on papers. We tested every three years (usually not in one sitting - spread out over two or three days). About $3K. Our insurance never covered it. Good luck.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds to me maybe you are upset her grades are not better when they are excellent. What supports are you looking for? More than likely if she is doing well, you will get no help in less you doctor shop to find someone to tweak the scores to get what you need/want.
OP here. No, not upset by her grades at all. She's generally a good student. Just concerned that, while she has good organizational skills and is keeping up with schoolwork, the rigors of junior and senior-year coursework may be too much for her. The only support I can think of is extra time on tests.
Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds to me maybe you are upset her grades are not better when they are excellent. What supports are you looking for? More than likely if she is doing well, you will get no help in less you doctor shop to find someone to tweak the scores to get what you need/want.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. So are you all recommending that we do the whole 6-hour pyshoeducational testing process that we did in ES again? It cost around $2400 8 years ago. I didn't realize that some people repeat it every few years. Makes sense though because I can see how the symptoms would change over time.
I'm hesitant to go through the whole process again since it did not get her accomodations in ES and we may be denied again. But it sounds like it was worth it for the PPs.
We made sure to use a group that was covered by our insurance so cost was around $300. There's no reason to go to a place that doesn't take insurance unless there are very special circumstances that warrant it.
What insurance do you have? We have federal BCBS standard option and they wouldn't cover much as they considered it educational testing.