Anonymous wrote:Posted this before but I think it's not really any big deal and that staff turnover was always happening and it just never made the news. The majority of these jobs are not high paying and London is a really expensive area. Being one of many personal assistants is likely no more glamorous than your average admin asst position and likely doesn't pay much more.

You're far too mature and sensible to be in a thread about the royals.

People forget that these are two broken people. Harry is everything William is not and he spent quite a bit of time dealing with his own demons and issues in the public light. No doubt he felt that from within his own family. Megan’s family is clearly not supportive and highly dysfunctional on a level that it was eat or be eaten for her growing up.

I’m sure over the years Harry lost a number of staff who couldn’t deal with his Vegas escapades and other adventures.


It’s clear to see they find comfort in knowing the other has been thru similar experiences. Megan’s not so much in the public eye during her formative years but nonetheless, today!

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone who has been following the Royals for more than 30 seconds knows that this is their modus operandi. They leaked a lot of negativity about Diana in order to keep her in line before she learn to play the game and turned on them.

The purpose of these leaks is to remind Meghan not to fly too high or get too big a head. They are going to turn the public against her so that she has to retreat further into the royal family for protection and is thereby under control.

Ah, that makes sense. But Diana was a child when she married Charles. Meghan is a grown woman who knows how to stand up for herself. I think Harry picked her for good reason.

Uh, it's not Meghan's job to stand up for herself and remake the Royal Family. If she wanted to be a princess, she should have known there would be rules to follow.

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who has been following the Royals for more than 30 seconds knows that this is their modus operandi. They leaked a lot of negativity about Diana in order to keep her in line before she learn to play the game and turned on them.

The purpose of these leaks is to remind Meghan not to fly too high or get too big a head. They are going to turn the public against her so that she has to retreat further into the royal family for protection and is thereby under control.

Ah, that makes sense. But Diana was a child when she married Charles. Meghan is a grown woman who knows how to stand up for herself. I think Harry picked her for good reason.

Anyone who has been following the Royals for more than 30 seconds knows that this is their modus operandi. They leaked a lot of negativity about Diana in order to keep her in line before she learn to play the game and turned on them.

The purpose of these leaks is to remind Meghan not to fly too high or get too big a head. They are going to turn the public against her so that she has to retreat further into the royal family for protection and is thereby under control.

Anonymous wrote:She’s the wrecking ball that prince Harry brought into HIS dis functional family. I doubt he’s forgotten how granny hated his mommy.

Maybe he married MM out of spite to the queen, realizing he needs to start doing the martied/family thing, and MM checked all those boxes. Tohim, shes an interesting specimen and fresh new blood - a subtle jan at the buffy old fashion royal protocol. ,

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Anonymous wrote:Oh, good grief. You really think that Prince Harry is not socially adept enough to notice the traits of a narcissist? You think he went out of his way to find and marry a person with a major personality disorder? I don't.

I think that Meghan has overcome a lot in her life, including some dysfunction in her family growing up. She has learned to put distance between herself and the people who bring her down - not because she's cold but as a way of survival. She wouldn't have gotten where she is today if she had allowed herself to get pulled into the mire.

She and Harry clearly love each. I think that a palace insider is telling tales because the tabloids are paying for dirt.

Oh good grief, Charlie Brown! Many brilliant people get sucked into a narc's life. They get stuck working for them; they stay stuck in marriages for many reasons - children being number 1.

I mentioned upthread that narcs are created. If her childhood & family patterns were a mess, those behaviors could have easily flipped a switch in her.

LOL at the part in bold! Narcs climb all the f-ing time! They will distance themselves from anyone who is viewed as a blemish. anyone . . .

Love is fleeting in these cases. Harry may THINK he's in love, but if she continues on with true narc behavior, he's out.

Harry had his pick of women. He chose someone with an independent streak who can weather being in the public eye and under intense internal scrutiny. Meghan has a strong sense of self and she is self reliant, not easily cowed into doing what others want her to do. She has learned to be that way in order to survive. That is not the same thing as being a narcissist.

Harry is too arrogant himself to be putting up with a narcissist. He loves that Meghan loves him because she isn't the type to give her heart to just anyone and he absolutely adores her right back.

Posted this before but I think it's not really any big deal and that staff turnover was always happening and it just never made the news. The majority of these jobs are not high paying and London is a really expensive area. Being one of many personal assistants is likely no more glamorous than your average admin asst position and likely doesn't pay much more.

Interesting rumors about food and the no to the hunting. It seems that Megan believes her way is the way...

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Anonymous wrote:I do think the leaks are coming from inside and my bet is William and Kate’s camp. This info isn’t coming directly from them or being ordered by them, but it started after the successful Australian tour when Harry and Meghan were getting many great headlines and Meghan was being revered for her Grenfell cookbook. I think the queen likely wants to see William and Kate held in the most positive light with the public, since he is the future king. The survival of the monarchy really depends on his popularity, Harry and Meghan are pretty inconsequential in the grand scheme of things.

+1 Definitely Will and Kate. Likely actually Will more than Kate. He is petty and jealous that way.

+2 except I think it’s more Kate

Of all the things that people say about Kate, that she's lazy, too skinny, dresses too old, etc., I haven't heard that she's petty and jealous.

Agree with posts that say both Meghan and Harry are from severely dysfunctional families.

Speaking of narcs... Thomas Markle anyone?

I have to say that I have grave doubts about anyone who is close friends with and idolizes the style of Jessica Mulroney. Yuck.

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Anonymous wrote:I do think the leaks are coming from inside and my bet is William and Kate’s camp. This info isn’t coming directly from them or being ordered by them, but it started after the successful Australian tour when Harry and Meghan were getting many great headlines and Meghan was being revered for her Grenfell cookbook. I think the queen likely wants to see William and Kate held in the most positive light with the public, since he is the future king. The survival of the monarchy really depends on his popularity, Harry and Meghan are pretty inconsequential in the grand scheme of things.

+1 Definitely Will and Kate. Likely actually Will more than Kate. He is petty and jealous that way.

+2 except I think it’s more Kate

Anonymous wrote:She’s the wrecking ball that prince Harry brought into HIS dis functional family. I doubt he’s forgotten how granny hated his mommy.

Dysfunction finds dysfunction.

She's a controlling narc.

Anonymous wrote:Oh, good grief. You really think that Prince Harry is not socially adept enough to notice the traits of a narcissist? You think he went out of his way to find and marry a person with a major personality disorder? I don't.

I think that Meghan has overcome a lot in her life, including some dysfunction in her family growing up. She has learned to put distance between herself and the people who bring her down - not because she's cold but as a way of survival. She wouldn't have gotten where she is today if she had allowed herself to get pulled into the mire.

She and Harry clearly love each. I think that a palace insider is telling tales because the tabloids are paying for dirt.

Oh good grief, Charlie Brown! Many brilliant people get sucked into a narc's life. They get stuck working for them; they stay stuck in marriages for many reasons - children being number 1.

I mentioned upthread that narcs are created. If her childhood & family patterns were a mess, those behaviors could have easily flipped a switch in her.

LOL at the part in bold! Narcs climb all the f-ing time! They will distance themselves from anyone who is viewed as a blemish. anyone . . .

Love is fleeting in these cases. Harry may THINK he's in love, but if she continues on with true narc behavior, he's out.