Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 23:10     Subject: What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sex - nothing in 12 1/2 years


Why?


PP: ED issues and no interest on his part. I went into the marriage knowing he had ED/low drive, but didn’t anticipate no sex, at all, ever.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 23:04     Subject: What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Anonymous wrote:My career


same. it was my choice so I don't blame my husband at all
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 23:02     Subject: Re:What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ditto on living where I don't want to


+1. I freaking hate it where I live.


+2. And I’m divorced but have young kids. It sucks so badly
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 22:54     Subject: What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Anonymous wrote:Sex - nothing in 12 1/2 years


Why?
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 22:27     Subject: What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
My cat. Wish I had kept the cat and ditched the guy.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 22:19     Subject: Re:What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
I'd say my corporate career but I ended up having a career that was fulfilling and really worked out for our family life....but I always wondered how far I could have gone given my academic background and the trajectory I was on. I was lucky in that my DH supported whatever I wanted to do even when it was a hit to our income. No real regrets but I do wonder!
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 22:17     Subject: What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Sex - nothing in 12 1/2 years
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 22:01     Subject: Re:What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
My career.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 21:57     Subject: Re:What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Very little sex.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 21:53     Subject: Re:What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
kink
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 21:06     Subject: Re:What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Anonymous wrote:Ditto on living where I don't want to


+1. I freaking hate it where I live.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 20:54     Subject: What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Quiet. He talks and talks and talks and talks.... blah blah blah constant mansplaining.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 20:53     Subject: What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Dancing. I love to dance, DH doesn’t (and, frankly, is not great at it). Most hobbies I’ll go out and do on my own, but that is one that just doesn’t feel right to do with someone else.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 20:51     Subject: Re:What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Also living in his preferred area
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2019 18:09     Subject: What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
Looking the other way when DH “fixes” things around the house. He does a super crappy jobs just to save money.