Anonymous
Post 01/12/2019 17:47     Subject: Would you maintain friendship with spouse’s crush?

Anonymous wrote:Yes!!

Do not open that can of worms!!


+1. So that his crush doen’t have to explain her “ side of the story” couple of years down the line as she cozies up in your house and blends families.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2019 17:44     Subject: Would you maintain friendship with spouse’s crush?

Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about her H? Your DH might be testing those swinging waters.


Not interested and yes, he was testing those waters with me as well. I’m taking it day by day and we are discussing couples counseling. I don’t have the bandwidth to figure out a continued growth of friendship with the wife right now.