Anonymous
Post 01/01/2019 03:00     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Interesting bc I actually went to a couple parties like this in middle school. The parents were “cool” parents... one was NYE and they gave us a champagne toast. I remember some low level MS sexual activity, but nothing more than what happens at other parties or the movies. Spin the bottle type stuff. In my head those pRties are actually really fun memories.

That said, not sure I’d let my kids go now. They are boys. I’d be worried about accusations more than anything.
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2019 02:40     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
My ds is 13 and has gone to coed sleepovers and we have hosted them. It is a small group of kids and they have been friends since preschool and kindergarten. I am not worried about it.
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2019 02:27     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Anonymous wrote:My DD has done many of these. The kids don't even change their clothes to sleep. You guys hyper-sexualize everything.


It really depends on the kids and the parents involved. We have cameras in our basement so we can see everything and can easily put one in the living room and other areas so they cannot get away with too much. I'd probably allow it as if they are going to do something they will find a way.
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2019 02:20     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Anonymous wrote:My DD has done many of these. The kids don't even change their clothes to sleep. You guys hyper-sexualize everything.


+1

-someone who went to sleepovers like this all the time as a teen (yet somehow remained a virgin until my 20s — unlike a lot of my friends whose parents forbid them from attending)
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2019 00:50     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
My DD has done many of these. The kids don't even change their clothes to sleep. You guys hyper-sexualize everything.
Anonymous
Post 01/01/2019 00:40     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Happens in our world.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 23:53     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Oh hell no.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 23:41     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Nope nope nope.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 23:20     Subject: Re:Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
No absolutely not
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 23:00     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
No, I don't think so
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 22:59     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Nope. Nope. Nope.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 21:11     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Yeah, NO.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 21:10     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
I have hosted co-ed sleepovers several times. Most of my daughter’s friends are gay/lesbian.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 17:33     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
Another nope. But I have a friend whose son has attended parties like this, so it must be a thing.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2018 17:32     Subject: Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old
If this party is tonight in downtown Silver Spring, there are lots of kids attending and the parents have done these for years. The kids don’t actually sleep, but at some point, they are physically segregated by gender. I was also leery the first time, but it’s been fine.