A real man pees standing up. A real man eats steak every night and washes it down with two old fashioned. A real man has two families — one at home and one with his AP.

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Anonymous wrote:On occasion. Nothing wrong medically. Normally stands up, but says sometimes he just doesn’t feel like it. And no, it’s not sitting down to go #2 and he does it at that time out of convenience. Not a germaphobe trying to avoid the posts-pee shake and splatter that most men decorate the bathroom floor with. He just sits down on the toilet seat in the same manner a woman has to sometimes when he has to urinate.

What do you think about this?

I do this but I have a wife and two daughters so it’s more about not lifting the toilet seat ever.

Makes sense for that purpose. This person is single, no girls in the house and no need to worry about seats. They said they get tired of standing up. They don’t work a laborious job or have any (identified) health condition where physical exhaustion is the status quo.

So this is a person you don’t live with? Not your husband?

Why are you even in the know about their pee habits?

This is the important question.

It’s an ex.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:On occasion. Nothing wrong medically. Normally stands up, but says sometimes he just doesn’t feel like it. And no, it’s not sitting down to go #2 and he does it at that time out of convenience. Not a germaphobe trying to avoid the posts-pee shake and splatter that most men decorate the bathroom floor with. He just sits down on the toilet seat in the same manner a woman has to sometimes when he has to urinate.

What do you think about this?

I do this but I have a wife and two daughters so it’s more about not lifting the toilet seat ever.

Makes sense for that purpose. This person is single, no girls in the house and no need to worry about seats. They said they get tired of standing up. They don’t work a laborious job or have any (identified) health condition where physical exhaustion is the status quo.

So this is a person you don’t live with? Not your husband?

Why are you even in the know about their pee habits?

This is the important question.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:On occasion. Nothing wrong medically. Normally stands up, but says sometimes he just doesn’t feel like it. And no, it’s not sitting down to go #2 and he does it at that time out of convenience. Not a germaphobe trying to avoid the posts-pee shake and splatter that most men decorate the bathroom floor with. He just sits down on the toilet seat in the same manner a woman has to sometimes when he has to urinate.

What do you think about this?

I do this but I have a wife and two daughters so it’s more about not lifting the toilet seat ever.

Makes sense for that purpose. This person is single, no girls in the house and no need to worry about seats. They said they get tired of standing up. They don’t work a laborious job or have any (identified) health condition where physical exhaustion is the status quo.

So this is a person you don’t live with? Not your husband?

Why are you even in the know about their pee habits?

This is what you are supposed to do in a home. It's cleaner and more polite. Stand when you are in public and don't want to touch a questionable toilet or urinal, but no need to make the home toilet more of a mess to clean.

The only way civilized people pee, OP. Standing up is for boors.

He was raised right.

What’s wrong with you?

Anonymous wrote:This question has been asked and answered so many times on various fora here. What's your problem? My DH is very tall and sits because peeing from higher up means lots of splash. I never have to put the toilet seat down and there's never any mess. Why would you not think this was anything but a plus.

This I am 6’4” and find it more courteous to DW.

There are a lot of women posting about the joy of no pee sprinkles, or cold seats, which I totally get and I agree, it’s a beautiful thing. But I’m not judging the act. People are criticizing me if something I haven’t done because I posed the question.

I’m simply interested in how men perceive other men doing this. They all stand at urinals. Men were primarily commenting on the other thread on not being intimidated by women. A random poster (sarcastically?) said something about not being intimidated by anyone that sits down to pee. And I thought to myself - I’ve seen a man do that though.

So I came here to ask. And some of you are being super critical about the question. I’ve given plenty of context.

Thanks for the opinions of those that actually read and actually answered the question.

Man here. Always at night. No need to focus. Trying not to wake up so I can go back to sleep. Daytime: only I feel like reading DCUM.

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s odd that you’re commenting on it. DH does it too. So what...

This.
Who wants to be cleaning up pee spray from everywhere anyway? My DH taught DS to do this as well.

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s extremely strange and you should clearly be questioning his masculinity. Does he do other not-so-manly things like drink tea?

What kind of Real Man sits to pee?!

/s

As I said before, a different poster implied just that in another thread. I’m trying to find out if it was a sarcastic sentiment or a common view amongst men. You never know here.

Honest answer. I think it’s super creepy.

My dad was raised that you sit to pee when you are in a house. That it was more quiet/polite.

I think it's totally normal for a man to either stand or sit, whatever they feel like. The only issue in this scenario is you questioning the way he pees.