Hi OP. Sorry it's not working out as easily this time. Age plays a major role, so it's not crazy that it's taking longer and you've had 2 chemicals. I def agree that it would be good to see an RE to know where you stand and since you're over 35 waiting doesn't make much sense. I'll be honest, though, the world of ART sucks...only ever so slightly less than the unfulfilled desire for a child (even a second or third).