Anonymous wrote:OP here--I just turned 50 and have a 9 and half year old and 4 year old and DH is 56.
We are in Bethesda where older parenting is supposed to be common but I don't feel like I see that many parents my age at kid places.
One of my close friends is in Bethesda and is 58 with a 12 year old (and a 16 yo). So when she was your age she had a 4 yo. She says she’s definitely on the older side compared to the other parents in her younger kids class. I’m the same age and my kids have both graduated from college (and I was over 30 when both were born so not exactly a teen mom or anything!)