Anonymous wrote:I agree with one of the PP that the experienced coaches recognize talents better than a typical parent does.
Even if they bring in a kid that seems to have the same talent level of existing kids, but the coach might also recognize more potential with new kid.
Yes, this hurts us parents of this happens to one of your kids, but c’est la vie!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Too many parents only focus exclusively on what their kids do when they’re on the ball. It’s easy to blame other position groups rather than admit your kid needs to release quicker, or transition back full speed, have good positioning, find open space better, track runners, etc
Huh? I find that to be a problem with a majority of coaches more than parents that were either raised in Europe and/or grew up watching FIFA and played competitively themselves. The chickens running around with wasted energy/movement and the kids that dribble it into the ground (but have fancy footskills) are the ones that get the attention even though they have zero effectiveness, can't help draw players away, don't know where to move or anticipate a pass, don't ever catch the wingback making an overlapping run but are hyper focused on taking it down themselves, try to take on 4-5 players, clear it out of the back vs dribbling/taking space when available---and the other players no knowledge to slide in to cover....
Anonymous wrote:Too many parents only focus exclusively on what their kids do when they’re on the ball. It’s easy to blame other position groups rather than admit your kid needs to release quicker, or transition back full speed, have good positioning, find open space better, track runners, etc
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:An assertion was made at our club that "they extend DA offers to new players rather than promote from their own team 2 as they want to bring more players into the club (and thus more money)."
In the case of our club team, that certainly seemed to be the case, with 4 new players joining and no one from the team 2 getting promoted, but I was just curious how are internal promotions handled at your DA? Is there a pathway with your club to the higher levels?
No matter the club, cough FCV cough, this does not work out. The "slighted" player always leaves the club. There is nothing wrong with bringing in outside players but they need to be demonstratively better than the ones they are bumping down or out. Players and parents can accept it if the player is clearly better but if they are pretty much just the same that is when folks, rightfully, get pissed off.
No, not "rightfully".
The DA is supposed to be cutthroat...that's what it's all about.
If they recruit someone from outside the team instead of promoting your kid, it's because they think he's better. Period. They owe nothing to the players or kids, and yes, you owe nothing to them.
If you don't like that, play rec.
Because after all:
Mercy is for the week, and we do not train to be merciful...
Right, sensei?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:An assertion was made at our club that "they extend DA offers to new players rather than promote from their own team 2 as they want to bring more players into the club (and thus more money)."
In the case of our club team, that certainly seemed to be the case, with 4 new players joining and no one from the team 2 getting promoted, but I was just curious how are internal promotions handled at your DA? Is there a pathway with your club to the higher levels?
No matter the club, cough FCV cough, this does not work out. The "slighted" player always leaves the club. There is nothing wrong with bringing in outside players but they need to be demonstratively better than the ones they are bumping down or out. Players and parents can accept it if the player is clearly better but if they are pretty much just the same that is when folks, rightfully, get pissed off.
No, not "rightfully".
The DA is supposed to be cutthroat...that's what it's all about.
If they recruit someone from outside the team instead of promoting your kid, it's because they think he's better. Period. They owe nothing to the players or kids, and yes, you owe nothing to them.
If you don't like that, play rec.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The new players that are coming in ARE demonstrably better...you just aren't willing to admit that, and/or are too close to see it.
As this seems more of a truthful, hypothetical anecdote we really have no way of knowing this for a fact on an anonymous message board.
We do not know the club, the team, or the players involved so to make such a statement is not at all based on facts.
How about basic logic?
A team isn't going to bother recruiting a player if they don't think he's better than at least one player that's already on the team.
Sure, that is true with the target player, but often times these are "package" deals that involve one or two more players who are not actually better than what the team already has but they are players who are not changing teams to be on the B team either. The team will often recruit the lesser player's friend in hopes to get the them to peak the interest of the player they really want to come over.
Of my goodness...we're going off the deep end here.
Let's put it this way, if you're worried that your kid will be kicked off the team, or not make the team because of something like this, he probably didn't have much of a future with that team anyway.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The new players that are coming in ARE demonstrably better...you just aren't willing to admit that, and/or are too close to see it.
As this seems more of a truthful, hypothetical anecdote we really have no way of knowing this for a fact on an anonymous message board.
We do not know the club, the team, or the players involved so to make such a statement is not at all based on facts.
How about basic logic?
A team isn't going to bother recruiting a player if they don't think he's better than at least one player that's already on the team.
Sure, that is true with the target player, but often times these are "package" deals that involve one or two more players who are not actually better than what the team already has but they are players who are not changing teams to be on the B team either. The team will often recruit the lesser player's friend in hopes to get the them to peak the interest of the player they really want to come over.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The new players that are coming in ARE demonstrably better...you just aren't willing to admit that, and/or are too close to see it.
As this seems more of a truthful, hypothetical anecdote we really have no way of knowing this for a fact on an anonymous message board.
We do not know the club, the team, or the players involved so to make such a statement is not at all based on facts.
How about basic logic?
A team isn't going to bother recruiting a player if they don't think he's better than at least one player that's already on the team.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The new players that are coming in ARE demonstrably better...you just aren't willing to admit that, and/or are too close to see it.
As this seems more of a truthful, hypothetical anecdote we really have no way of knowing this for a fact on an anonymous message board.
We do not know the club, the team, or the players involved so to make such a statement is not at all based on facts.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What does it say about the coaches ability to develop and improve players? The way to improve is recruit new players? How about investing in the ones you have to make them better? Just because a new player did well in another program, under a different coach, different teammates, training style, etc does not mean they will excel on a new team. It could be a step backwards for the new player and the team and then you’ve just thrown away a year or more invested development. Unless you’ve found an obvious superstar, stick with and develop your investments. The quick fix mentality is not helping anyone
The whole point of DAs is that they bring in the best players from a wide geographic radius and and wide variety of programs.
Anonymous wrote:The new players that are coming in ARE demonstrably better...you just aren't willing to admit that, and/or are too close to see it.