Anonymous
Post 11/28/2018 01:21     Subject: Re:Would you see this as a red flag?

Guy here. Yes it’s a joke but at the same time he’ll be showing his friends how much he spent on you. Guaranteed.
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 18:26     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:Damn humor is dead.
Everybody in outright panic mode over every little thing.


Agreed! I make sarcastic jokes like this all the time with my wife. The things I joke about would probably get me crucified on DCUMD!
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 18:11     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

You know him, we don't.

What other weird shit does he do?
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 17:47     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not as much as red flag as brown stamping the sheets, but still a red flag.


what?


there's another flag where a woman asks about red flags and that was one of them.


Another "thread".
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 17:46     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not as much as red flag as brown stamping the sheets, but still a red flag.


what?


there's another flag where a woman asks about red flags and that was one of them.
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 15:45     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not as much as red flag as brown stamping the sheets, but still a red flag.







ROTFL
...as if the no sex for two years wasn't bad enough. lol
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 15:43     Subject: Re:Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:It's a joke. But did he REALLY take the picture?
And for his birthday, pull into the McDonald's parking lot at first as a joke! Show him you have a sense of humor too!



Too funny...kove this...
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 15:42     Subject: Re:Would you see this as a red flag?

Nowhere in the original post did it say he was being funny. She did not say he smiled or laughed. I’m not sure why folks are assuming he was joking.
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 15:40     Subject: Re:Would you see this as a red flag?

It's a joke. But did he REALLY take the picture?
And for his birthday, pull into the McDonald's parking lot at first as a joke! Show him you have a sense of humor too!
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 15:36     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:no he probably has a receipt app! my husband does. it helps him keep track of expenses. I will try to find it. I bet he takes photos of many receipts and he just made a poor joke at the moment. He is not really taking a photo of the receipt to remember it!


Or maybe he keeps in case the amount (or tip) doesn't match up later, since it's larger than usual expense.
If it's a one time remark, agree that it's a lame joke.
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 15:21     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Sounds like he was kidding.
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 15:20     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:Not as much as red flag as brown stamping the sheets, but still a red flag.




Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 14:46     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Are you dating David Brent?
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 14:45     Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think the ACTUAL taking of the picture is pretty weird. But if he was generally not a cheap jack-a then it wouldn't make me break up with him.

You've been dating him for over a year, is this the last in a pattern of weird score keeping/controlling-with-money incidents or just a joke that didn't hit its mark?

And was it expensive like Jaleo or expensive like Ruth Chris or expensive like Pineapple and Pearls?


Note it's "Ruth's Chris"


Thanks Gladys.
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2018 14:44     Subject: Re:Would you see this as a red flag?

Anonymous wrote:He's probably just being funny. I wouldn't think much of it. Btw, how much was the tab?


$120