Anonymous wrote:I am dating someone with teenage kids and seriously wondering if we should do this.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Me, I suppose. Together 8 years, fully committed relationship. We live a 5 minute walk apart in separate places. It's not really the forever plan, but we both really enjoy the setup. I really, really love living alone. We are so close, we can go between apartments but still have the luxury of pure alone time in our own spaces. I just can't think of how much money we spend doing this, but it's otherwise pretty great.
Do you sleep together or separately in your own places?
Together on the weekends, separately during the week for the most part with occasional mid-week sleepovers.
Anonymous wrote:My SO and I are in our late 50's and we are very committed to each other but we live about ten minutes apart. He really likes his place and I like mine and we also both like our own quiet time. We spend about 4-5 nights a week together with a couple of weeknights off. We both keep plenty of things at each other's place so I never really have to pack anything. We are both in good shape financially so the double expense isn't a big problem. We both plan on retiring in a couple of years and we've been discussing getting a warm weather winter place that we would share.