Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have a 180k income and bought a 420k house with 20% down
People are crazy
People aren't crazy. They want quality of life, not having to commute 2 hours per day, want a walkable city and proximity to work and good schools. And that costs a hell of a lot more than 420K and people are fine with it because they get the life they want. Some of us think you're crazy for living like shit.
Anonymous wrote:We have a 180k income and bought a 420k house with 20% down
People are crazy
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are you, only at $325K. We paid 1.1 mil, PITI 4500 per month. This is one income. 30 year mortgage. We're less than a year into it and are facing sudden unemployment. We have 2 years of savings liquid to live off of until job is replaced. If you don't have a huge savings to cover sudden unemployment (and it can happen to anyone at any time), don't do it. Like you, debt free, kids in public schools, monthly costs are about 7K with all expenses) I regret buying this house now and will sell and downsize in two years - lesson learned.
Even if we didn't lose the job, we now understand as first time buyers how much influence our real estate agent and mortgage broker had over how much we'd spend on a house. Maybe you are way more experienced than we are and can pull it off. If you're really young and have great job prospects and savings, with plenty of working years left, then maybe it's right for you?
If you only have 7k of monthly fixed expenses, why can’t your employed spouse pay the bills while the other looks for a job?
They only have one income.
Well of course having an expensive mortgage on one income is dumb.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are you, only at $325K. We paid 1.1 mil, PITI 4500 per month. This is one income. 30 year mortgage. We're less than a year into it and are facing sudden unemployment. We have 2 years of savings liquid to live off of until job is replaced. If you don't have a huge savings to cover sudden unemployment (and it can happen to anyone at any time), don't do it. Like you, debt free, kids in public schools, monthly costs are about 7K with all expenses) I regret buying this house now and will sell and downsize in two years - lesson learned.
Even if we didn't lose the job, we now understand as first time buyers how much influence our real estate agent and mortgage broker had over how much we'd spend on a house. Maybe you are way more experienced than we are and can pull it off. If you're really young and have great job prospects and savings, with plenty of working years left, then maybe it's right for you?
If you only have 7k of monthly fixed expenses, why can’t your employed spouse pay the bills while the other looks for a job?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are you, only at $325K. We paid 1.1 mil, PITI 4500 per month. This is one income. 30 year mortgage. We're less than a year into it and are facing sudden unemployment. We have 2 years of savings liquid to live off of until job is replaced. If you don't have a huge savings to cover sudden unemployment (and it can happen to anyone at any time), don't do it. Like you, debt free, kids in public schools, monthly costs are about 7K with all expenses) I regret buying this house now and will sell and downsize in two years - lesson learned.
Even if we didn't lose the job, we now understand as first time buyers how much influence our real estate agent and mortgage broker had over how much we'd spend on a house. Maybe you are way more experienced than we are and can pull it off. If you're really young and have great job prospects and savings, with plenty of working years left, then maybe it's right for you?
If you only have 7k of monthly fixed expenses, why can’t your employed spouse pay the bills while the other looks for a job?
They only have one income.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are you, only at $325K. We paid 1.1 mil, PITI 4500 per month. This is one income. 30 year mortgage. We're less than a year into it and are facing sudden unemployment. We have 2 years of savings liquid to live off of until job is replaced. If you don't have a huge savings to cover sudden unemployment (and it can happen to anyone at any time), don't do it. Like you, debt free, kids in public schools, monthly costs are about 7K with all expenses) I regret buying this house now and will sell and downsize in two years - lesson learned.
Even if we didn't lose the job, we now understand as first time buyers how much influence our real estate agent and mortgage broker had over how much we'd spend on a house. Maybe you are way more experienced than we are and can pull it off. If you're really young and have great job prospects and savings, with plenty of working years left, then maybe it's right for you?
If you only have 7k of monthly fixed expenses, why can’t your employed spouse pay the bills while the other looks for a job?
Anonymous wrote:OP: it is one income which is likely to increase in the future. Not only savings. Would have another 100k insavings outside of 401k and 529’s. Not the only home we could buy, could spend less but don’t wants to move to far out of the metro area.
Anonymous wrote:We are you, only at $325K. We paid 1.1 mil, PITI 4500 per month. This is one income. 30 year mortgage. We're less than a year into it and are facing sudden unemployment. We have 2 years of savings liquid to live off of until job is replaced. If you don't have a huge savings to cover sudden unemployment (and it can happen to anyone at any time), don't do it. Like you, debt free, kids in public schools, monthly costs are about 7K with all expenses) I regret buying this house now and will sell and downsize in two years - lesson learned.
Even if we didn't lose the job, we now understand as first time buyers how much influence our real estate agent and mortgage broker had over how much we'd spend on a house. Maybe you are way more experienced than we are and can pull it off. If you're really young and have great job prospects and savings, with plenty of working years left, then maybe it's right for you?
Anonymous wrote:OP: it is one income which is likely to increase in the future. Not only savings. Would have another 100k insavings outside of 401k and 529’s. Not the only home we could buy, could spend less but don’t wants to move to far out of the metro area.