Anonymous wrote:This is so sad. I'm so thankful my DH seems to be only interested in the actual act of screwing my brains out and this has been going on for many years. Who needs toys, vibrators and porn when you've got body parts that really work? Am I a dinosaur?

No, I think you would have been rarity 50 years ago as well. Men often go to porn because women often don't seem terribly interested in sex.

Anonymous wrote:Lack of foreplay, no romance and no oral skills.

I think it was this article that said that men are generally more interested in giving oral sex than are women but women, due to body image issues, are much less likely to be comfortable receiving. So, in part, women need to figure out how to get out of their own heads and just enjoy that their guys want to go down.

Anonymous wrote:Great article. Makes me grateful for my wonderful husband who enthusiastically pursued me & worried for my kids....

I think porn is terrible & addictive.

Plenty of people pushing the addiction narrative, but scientifically they haven't been able to substantiate this fear.

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Anonymous wrote:It's depressing to read that at 67 I'm having sex at least as often to the average of millennials. What's wrong with you kids?

Porn has had a profound affect on men.

As a recovering porn addict whose marriage nearly ended over this, I agree.

+2. When I was dating, I could tell a huge difference between men who used porn and men who didn’t.

Now, if only we could get men to read a book on how women’s sexuality works.....

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Anonymous wrote:It's depressing to read that at 67 I'm having sex at least as often to the average of millennials. What's wrong with you kids?

Porn has had a profound affect on men.

As a recovering porn addict whose marriage nearly ended over this, I agree.

This is so sad. I'm so thankful my DH seems to be only interested in the actual act of screwing my brains out and this has been going on for many years. Who needs toys, vibrators and porn when you've got body parts that really work? Am I a dinosaur?

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Anonymous wrote:Liberalism lowers fertility.

Actually, Liberalism decreases abuse and thus, promiscuity.

Whatever... It's suicidal and barren.

Great article. Makes me grateful for my wonderful husband who enthusiastically pursued me & worried for my kids....

I think porn is terrible & addictive.

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Anonymous wrote:It's depressing to read that at 67 I'm having sex at least as often to the average of millennials. What's wrong with you kids?

Porn has had a profound affect on men.

I'm far from a pearl clutcher and I think its foolish to think that radically changing the first sexual experiences (meaning with self) of a generation of men (and women but most all porn is still aimed at a Male audience) to an on demand, ever boundary pushing, and very frequent interaction with videos online will have no long term effects. We may not know what they are but "porn is a healthy part of sexuality" is an arguement that is only thinking about fully formed adults and moderated use. There is no data yet on constant and ONLY sexual exposure for so many years for new generations.

Anonymous wrote:It's depressing to read that at 67 I'm having sex at least as often to the average of millennials. What's wrong with you kids?

Porn has had a profound affect on men.

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Anonymous wrote:Self love is the best love. And that's on the rise.

I did that consistently and satisfactorily during the nine years between marriages. DH and I are pretty regular and very satisfied, but there’s something special about taking care of yourself.

Do both. Self love and toys incorporated with regular and satisfactory interactions with your partner.

Anonymous wrote:Lack of foreplay, no romance and no oral skills.

You chose the wrong man.

Anonymous wrote:DCUM take:

It's the man's fault.

Men, do better!

What is wrong with you? I'm actually asking.

Anonymous wrote:Self love is the best love. And that's on the rise.

I did that consistently and satisfactorily during the nine years between marriages. DH and I are pretty regular and very satisfied, but there’s something special about taking care of yourself.

Lack of foreplay, no romance and no oral skills.