Anonymous
11/12/2018 17:42
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You seem jealous of your sister
How is someone "naturally thin" but has to run 5 miles a day and eat very very little
I had the same thought. I’m naturally thin and run often but eat like a monster.
I can assure that you “eating like a monster” is vastly different from someone obese “eating like a monster”.
Anonymous
11/12/2018 16:17
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Anonymous wrote:Oh FFS, it is so damaging to women to think that we are supposed to look/be perfect. Do you think men are posting about "secrets of perfect men?" No. Own your wrinkles and extra pounds, stop looking in the mirror, and focus on who you are as a person.
X10000
OP, no one takes you seriously, you are too focused on appearances - exactly why you are unhappy and unfulfilled.
Anonymous
11/12/2018 13:52
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Anonymous wrote:You seem jealous of your sister
How is someone "naturally thin" but has to run 5 miles a day and eat very very little
I had the same thought. I’m naturally thin and run often but eat like a monster.
Anonymous
11/12/2018 12:58
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Oh FFS, it is so damaging to women to think that we are supposed to look/be perfect. Do you think men are posting about "secrets of perfect men?" No. Own your wrinkles and extra pounds, stop looking in the mirror, and focus on who you are as a person.
Anonymous
11/12/2018 11:57
Subject: Re:Secrets of “Perfect Women”
I was waiting to get to the bullets in OP's first post where she said something about: super successful career, high income, fantastic kids, great husband, happy marriage, etc. It was truly bizarre to me that she thinks the perfect woman is compromised solely of thick, shiny hair and not eating and being diligent about it.
Anonymous
11/12/2018 11:47
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Anonymous wrote:How is getting sleep, being kind, taking walks and reading the newspaper etc superior? Superior to what? Staying up late, screaming obscenities at people, and not reading anything?
It's far superior to believing that what makes a woman superior is based solely and primarily on her appearance. It's superior in viewing women as intelligent, moral human beings with a sense of self-worth and agency, rather than supplicants to male fantasies of fake women.
Anonymous
11/12/2018 11:23
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
How is getting sleep, being kind, taking walks and reading the newspaper etc superior? Superior to what? Staying up late, screaming obscenities at people, and not reading anything?
Anonymous
11/12/2018 11:20
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Funny - I saw that list of 8 and thought it sounded so much more interesting and satisfying and less stressful than solely focusing on appearance. How it that smug?
Anonymous
11/12/2018 10:02
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Anonymous wrote:1) Be a kind, empathetic person
2) Get a s good a education as you can. Get a graduate degree, if possible
3) Surround yourself with good people
4) Prioritize sleep
5) Look neat, but don't obsess about it
6) Learn to enjoy a variety of foods, and eat in the pleasure of good company
7) Read the newspaper
8) Take long walks
9). Post smug, superior posts on DCUM about how much better you are than everyone else
Anonymous
11/12/2018 09:54
Subject: Re:Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Anonymous wrote:your jealousy smells awful
OP, grow up and live and let live.
Anonymous
11/12/2018 09:24
Subject: Re:Secrets of “Perfect Women”
your jealousy smells awful
Anonymous
11/12/2018 07:41
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
1) Be a kind, empathetic person
2) Get a s good a education as you can. Get a graduate degree, if possible
3) Surround yourself with good people
4) Prioritize sleep
5) Look neat, but don't obsess about it
6) Learn to enjoy a variety of foods, and eat in the pleasure of good company
7) Read the newspaper
8) Take long walks
2) Get a s good a education as you can. Get a graduate degree, if possible
3) Surround yourself with good people
4) Prioritize sleep
5) Look neat, but don't obsess about it
6) Learn to enjoy a variety of foods, and eat in the pleasure of good company
7) Read the newspaper
8) Take long walks
Anonymous
11/12/2018 00:50
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
I'll spill my secrets:
1) skip meals whenever you can.
2) be clear about your goals: are you trying to get great nutrition, or to be skinny? They aren't one in the same. So all those chia and flax seeds just add calories; skip them.
3) botox. Retinol.
4) lift weights. Cardio won't make you hot.
5) push up bra. Always.
1) skip meals whenever you can.
2) be clear about your goals: are you trying to get great nutrition, or to be skinny? They aren't one in the same. So all those chia and flax seeds just add calories; skip them.
3) botox. Retinol.
4) lift weights. Cardio won't make you hot.
5) push up bra. Always.
Anonymous
11/12/2018 00:23
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
Ditto on passing on this "perfection" life.
Anonymous
11/11/2018 21:17
Subject: Secrets of “Perfect Women”
You seem jealous of your sister
How is someone "naturally thin" but has to run 5 miles a day and eat very very little
How is someone "naturally thin" but has to run 5 miles a day and eat very very little