Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:53
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
Do you happen to do doc review for a living?
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:43
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
I’ve always felt this way. Even worse in middle school. I’mAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I actually fear an afterlife because it might be an eternity of this. Me being constantly reminded of what a freak and failure I am. It’ll probably be an eternity of me at an orgy where everyone gets laid but me. I’ve literalky gone to college parties where that happened
This is a textbook example of how self-talk ("I'm a freak and a failure") causes feelings ("I feel like a failure") including future catastrophic thinking ("eternity of me at an orgy").
PLEASE make an appointment with a therapist.
This might have been me (except for the orgy in heaven part, ewww) at one time.
Feeling better about yourself may or may not eventually lead to opportunities for sex, but staying in the same mental space you are in now will likely BAR any such opportunities and even if you do stumble into sex one way or another it is NOT going to be fun if that's how you are feeling.
Actually shocked I’m not a Virgin.
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:42
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
OP self confidence would make you much more attractive. you seem like a very negative person, and that's not an attractive quality. Can you find something to be happy and positive about?
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:41
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
Anonymous wrote:I actually fear an afterlife because it might be an eternity of this. Me being constantly reminded of what a freak and failure I am. It’ll probably be an eternity of me at an orgy where everyone gets laid but me. I’ve literalky gone to college parties where that happened
This is a textbook example of how self-talk ("I'm a freak and a failure") causes feelings ("I feel like a failure") including future catastrophic thinking ("eternity of me at an orgy").
PLEASE make an appointment with a therapist.
This might have been me (except for the orgy in heaven part, ewww) at one time.
Feeling better about yourself may or may not eventually lead to opportunities for sex, but staying in the same mental space you are in now will likely BAR any such opportunities and even if you do stumble into sex one way or another it is NOT going to be fun if that's how you are feeling.
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:31
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
Stop with the game nonsense. Want to find a woman to have sex with on a consistent basis? Be a good listener, care about her everyday life, surprise her with creative date ideas. I have dated women far more objectively attractive than I am as a man because I was conscious of HER needs.
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:14
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
What reason for deleting posts?
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:08
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
thanks. I feel much betterAnonymous wrote:this is one of the most messed up threads I've ever seen on DCUm!
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:08
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
Ohhh I just tried to find that old thread with the whiner complaining about having no game. But its gone. Did you have Jeff delete it? It was just like this, same old sob story song.
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:04
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
So, now I need to calculate for how much of my life I've been sexually active.
But OP, try calculating from your adult life. You'll get a better number. 6 active years out of about (assuming you are 45) 27, 22%! You've doubled your sexual activity! Whooot!
But OP, try calculating from your adult life. You'll get a better number. 6 active years out of about (assuming you are 45) 27, 22%! You've doubled your sexual activity! Whooot!
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:02
Subject: Re:I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
If I was not married, I won't have had any sex in my life.
Anonymous
11/09/2018 13:01
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
this is one of the most messed up threads I've ever seen on DCUm!
Anonymous
11/09/2018 12:53
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Male or female?
What's with all the doom and gloomers on this board?
Male. I have zero game so this isn’t going to change. Some people were just meant to fail with the opposite sex
Oh god you again. I remember you zero game guy. The reason no one wants to have sex with you is because you mope around like this all the time. I can only imagine you on a first date.
"So I'm guessing this isn't working out and you'll never have sex with me right?"
Girl, internally, 'well now I'm sure as heck not!'
Not me. Most guys have no game hence why the few players get most women until early 30s
Anonymous
11/09/2018 12:51
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Male or female?
What's with all the doom and gloomers on this board?
Male. I have zero game so this isn’t going to change. Some people were just meant to fail with the opposite sex
Oh god you again. I remember you zero game guy. The reason no one wants to have sex with you is because you mope around like this all the time. I can only imagine you on a first date.
"So I'm guessing this isn't working out and you'll never have sex with me right?"
Girl, internally, 'well now I'm sure as heck not!'
That’s not me. I’d think most guys have no game
Anonymous
11/09/2018 12:49
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Male or female?
What's with all the doom and gloomers on this board?
Male. I have zero game so this isn’t going to change. Some people were just meant to fail with the opposite sex
Oh god you again. I remember you zero game guy. The reason no one wants to have sex with you is because you mope around like this all the time. I can only imagine you on a first date.
"So I'm guessing this isn't working out and you'll never have sex with me right?"
Girl, internally, 'well now I'm sure as heck not!'
Anonymous
11/09/2018 12:48
Subject: I’ve been sexually active only 11% of my life
Anonymous wrote:Male or female?
What's with all the doom and gloomers on this board?
Male. I have zero game so this isn’t going to change. Some people were just meant to fail with the opposite sex