Anonymous wrote:Whether we have sex or not, no shower after a workout is a deal breaker for me.

Some chicks love the smell of sweat and natural pheromones draw some women like flies to the light. It's a thing.

I'm a guy and love showering a couple times a day and would not bank on this. lol

Anonymous wrote:If he is uncircumcised the nastyness it quadruple

If he were uncircumcised he probably wouldn't be such a dirty slob.

Anonymous wrote:This is just odd. People know that working out makes you sweaty and intensifies smells. He knows that, you know that...why can't you talk about it? You aren't pointing out some deep insecurity he has.

Why would you sleep with / give oral sex to someone who smells like sweat and pee? You do not sound mature or assertive enough to be in a healthy relationship.

I'm sure there are a lot of us out there.

This is just odd. People know that working out makes you sweaty and intensifies smells. He knows that, you know that...why can't you talk about it? You aren't pointing out some deep insecurity he has.

Why would you sleep with / give oral sex to someone who smells like sweat and pee? You do not sound mature or assertive enough to be in a healthy relationship.

Men don't seen to mind so much when you tell them they smell bad.or when you point out their stay hairs.

If i see my s/o had a hair growing somewhere, i just ask if i can pluck it, he says ok, i pluck it, interaction over. If i had a hair to pluck I'd be mortified if he did the same thing!

OP here. He doesn’t treat me like a doormat. I told him last night that I want him to shower after every workout and he said fine. His explanation was that he didn’t swat as much on certain workout days, so he didn’t want to waste water. The situation is hopefully fixed. Oh, and yes, he’s circumsised!

If he is uncircumcised the nastyness it quadruple

Just tell him. If he doesn’t clean up then you bow out of the relationship.

Wow, sorry OP, he doesn’t repect you.

Does he treat you like a doormat in other ways?