Anonymous wrote:Arghhh hate that my thread gets moved here.. don't typically get a lot of responses in this forum.
There is absolutely NO way she can hear the babies crying. She's in the basement with 6 toddlers and then there is the main floor, and the upstairs bedroom level. To the poster who asked if I watch my baby sleeping all the time.. no, I don't. But I am within earshot of her and I am in a house all by myself and so I am alert and is always paying attention. I don't even go to the basement to watch TV and leave him sleeping in the upstairs bedroom for fear of not hearing him even though I have a monitor. It's the SIDS that concerns me but then again, that's the reality of home daycare right? You have 2 people watching 8... it's just not an ideal situation in my opinion.
I know some would say well I clearly don't trust her and I shouldn't go to her. It's not that. It's really difficult to find a good provider and so far, we are fine with everything about her and I don't want to miss this potential provider. Argh this is so difficult
Why are you arrghing like a pirate? It's not difficult. Offer to get a monitor. They even have monitors that you can view on your cell phone, if the caregiver is comfortable with that. Don't push your luck.